a blog about unvoiced options women have to fight back + grain of salt
Saturday, 24 October 2020
To scoop nuts
Sunday, 11 October 2020
Inspirational story #2
A late night park can be a dangerous place, sometimes for a rapist |
One night they brought in a young guy in his early twenties,
in obvious distress and enormous pain. Only a shot of strong painkillers kept
him conscious. On the first sight there was no obvious trauma or blood which
would indicate the reason for his state. It was only when paramedics reported trauma in the patient's genital
region and removed the blanket, she noticed he was naked from the waist down and
his scrotum was swollen to the size of a big orange with a dark blue hue.
Paramedics did not know any other details or how it happened; they were just
called in as somebody called an emergency line after spotting a half-naked unconscious
man in bushes of a local park. The man refused to give any information during
the transport.
Jane, the author of the book, immediately called in a
urology surgeon. As I remember correctly Jane called her Dr. Mia, I do not know
if it was her first or last name. She was a chief physician and one of her
study tutors. They rushed the guy to the room with an ultrasound scanner.
The injured testicles were so sensitive on touch a heavy load of anaesthetics had to be applied first. After
a thorough examination with Doppler, Dr. Mia concluded a testicular rupture
with multiple tears in tunica albuginea, extrusion of seminiferous tubules
accompanied with massive hematoma in his left testis and a moderate contusion
in his right testicle. She decided that the unilateral orchiectomy of his left
testicle has to be performed immediately in order to avoid gangrene. Jane assisted
in the surgery and according to her it was an uncommon experience. She had already
assisted with quite some surgeries during her training before. These were usually
appendectomies or bladder stones removals, but never an orchiectomy. The
story then contains a description of the whole procedure and the accompanied complications
as the damage was unusually severe.
Although the book wasn’t an actual educational literature,
the medical details and the science behind was sometimes included. The book was
intended for young female medics and meant to be rather inspirational with advices
for life as a female medical practitioner.
Doppler image of a young man's left testicle with severe rupture and hematoma, similar one seen by Dr. Mia |
About 2 months later Jane was finishing her apprenticeship and had a meeting with Dr. Mia to wrap up the whole training and to get a feedback. Their discussion obviously touched upon this case and Dr. Mia suggested they should write a case report for a medical journal. Due the use of medical evidence for filing charges, Dr. Mia was granted access to the rapist files, so she knew all the details about the outcomes of the investigation and made some notes. Interestingly, no girl ever reported the incident and they have never found her. The only account what happened is from the guy himself but there was no reason to disbelieve him. He confessed as there was a strong DNA evidence from other attacks, so he fully cooperated to reduce the sentence.
He admitted that he always used the same modus operandi, as he did in this case. Late nights he hung around the local park and waited for an opportunity. The park is large, poorly lit, full of trees and bushes and is often used by students as a shortcut between the city center, the university campus, and dormitories. He usually did not have to wait long to spot his would-be prey. That day around 12:30 am he picked a girl around 20 years old maybe a student, and based on the dress, probably returning from a party. Despite providing a relatively good description of her the investigators failed to identify her. She was of an average height, slim, with long blond hairs and dark brown eyes. She wore a white blouse, dark blue skirt and black stilettoes. She also had a small black purse with her. When she was passing his hiding, he ambushed her from the back, grabbed her in a bear hug, pull over to the bushes far from the pathway, pushed her to the ground and proceeded with the sex attack.
A girl's hand can cause a traumatic injury |
Jane and Dr. Mia praised the girl’s bravery and the right actions she took, although they did not like her not contacting any authorities. They both agreed that all girls should be taught this to reduce the rape rates. Dr. Mia also added: 'But then, we would need more trained urologists to perform all the orchiectomies!' Jane then wrote that this story and Dr. Mia inspired her and her female friends to attend the self defense classes offered by the university. The story finishes off by Jane’s advice that skills how to fight back sexual predators should be a part of every woman’s wellbeing. She wrote: 'Listening how to rupture a rapist testicle maybe isn’t as satisfying as to learn a new yoga position but it might save your life one day'.
Probably we will never know who the girl was, but obviously she
was prepared by a proper training in the last resort self defense techniques.
From the description it is clear she effectively used a combination of good judgment,
initial compliance and a finishing technique called the testicular rupture
which I will describe later on this blog.
Sunday, 4 October 2020
Testicle props
Teaching girls and women techniques of the last resort self defense, and especially those targeting testicles, can be quite challenging. For some obvious reasons it is not always possible to have real male bodies involved. However, there are plenty of possibilities for very good analogues for different human parts which can be a very valuable didactic and training tool. Today I discus the options for testicle props.
One of the most accessible and quick option is to use two half ripe plums, small peaches, tomatoes or avocadoes placed in a sock or a stocking. It is not difficult to make such a prop, so each student can be given at least one. Being attached to any solid support e.g. a doorknob, girls can be, for instance demonstrated that their strength is enough to rupture a testicle quickly or how to make a proper lock with their fingers. However, this is not a full-time solution. One would have to replace the ‘testicle’ each time after squashing and this option is not very practical for training kicks and knees. Lets be honest it can be also quite messy.
So what are the other option? There are very good fake silicone testicles on the fun product market, which are, by their feel, texture and resistance quite similar to the real ones. They come with a long stretchable scrotum base which makes it easy to fasten them to a support and to regulate the looseness of the scrotum. Attached to a kicking dummy, or a protective box of a sparring partner make it an ideal choice for practicing leg strikes (particularly the scoop kick and kneeing) and grabbing them from different positions.
The most expensive props are real medical models. However, these are essential if teaching some of the very technical methods like the death pinch. The high quality ones are made from latex or silicone and have very realistic testes inside a scrotum with palpable cords and epididymis. I admit I used to play a lot with the one we had in our self defense class and I have become very familiar with the fine structure of the delicate organs I do not have. Using testicle props in self defense classes can be a fun way to deal with the serious subject of women’s self defense and at the same time providing the female attendees the best possible training they need.