Sunday, 24 March 2024

Interview with Tina

Tina is a busy young female academic doing
controversial but important research. 
In some of my previous posts, I mentioned that Linda is not just a female self-defense trainer, she has a faculty position at the Faculty of Physical Education and besides teaching several courses, and coaching a women’s football team, she also does cutting-edge research in the relatively new but also controversial field of experimental female self-defense. I have been always intrigued and wanted to learn more and make a blog post about it. When I contacted her recently, Linda told me that unfortunately she is going through some medical treatment soon, and the best would be to interview Tina, a recently graduated Ph.D. student in her group, whom I already briefly met once when I was interviewing Linda. I thought it was an excellent idea, so I immediately wrote her an email and arranged a meeting. I was very excited when I met her in her office at the university. She offered me a cup of coffee, I made myself comfortable in an armchair and looked around. Her office looked like a typical working place of a busy young academic; shelves were filled with various books, and on the walls were hanging pictures from meetings and conferences as well as snapshots of training sessions and successful experiments and some medical posters and art. On her desk, she had the most special piece, a detailed plastic anatomy model of male genitals in real size.

One of Tina's office wall decorations.
This art signifies she has to deal with different
penis and testicle types.
It was very enjoyable to meet such an ambitious and knowledgeable young female scientist. Tina is very passionate about her work, and I especially appreciate her openness and transparency about some sensitive topics. The interview with her was an eye-opening experience, and I am sure you will enjoy it as well.

Thank you very much Tina for agreeing to this interview, I think what you and Linda do is quite fascinating but a bit shrouded in mystery. Can you tell us a bit about your research field?

The field I and Linda work in is now called experimental gyneaftoamynology from the Greek words gynaíka - female and aftoámyna - self-defense as a newly established branch of physical education. Its primary aim is to make female self-defense systems most effective through empirical investigations. It means that instead of relying on some anecdotal evidence or unproven theories and assumptions, we put the theories to the test. It is a multidisciplinary discipline, and it combines different aspects from human anatomy and physiology, to psychology, and physical education.

Interesting, so what does your workday look like?

Like all scientists, I am busy from early morning to late afternoon. Basically, I run on coffee… there is always a lot of new literature to read, then I am often occupied with writing manuscripts and reports, filing, and submitting applications for grants and ethics commission approvals, recruiting test subjects, planning, and then, of course doing the experiments…this is what I and Linda like the most. But nothing is easy, and it requires a great amount of commitment and hard work. In the end, it is always so rewarding to get the hard-earned results. Sometimes we must go down the rabbit hole with unexpected outcomes popping up…can be quite thrilling.

What attracted you to this research field and how you made up your decision to do a PhD?

Initially, I wanted to become a high school physical education teacher. In the second year of my study, I was so amazed by Linda’s lectures. She was talking about things I had never heard before, I realized that this is the research that saves lives but hardly makes headlines. As an undergraduate student, I learned about two cases of a sex attack on campus. One sadly ended in rape, and the other one failed as the girl, trained in Karate successfully defended herself.  The ‘poor’ attacker was left with multiple serious injuries including a ruptured testicle after a well-executed Kin Geri. I too was harassed during my first year by a guy and did not know how to properly react. I realized the outcome of a sex attack does not need to be predetermined; a girl can win if she is provided with the right knowledge and skills. To help to drive a paradigm shift in society I embarked on a mission to help Linda use science to equip women with the best knowledge and tools to accomplish their safety in this dangerous world.

What do you think about Linda? How is it to work with her?

I admire her a lot, she is an outstanding scholar, a great supervisor, and a role model for the generation of young female scientists like me. She is a fountain of unconventional ideas. You probably know her, a little bit special personality from the course, she is strict and very demanding but also focused and goal-oriented. One might argue that she occasionally crosses the line or maybe she is too uncompromised when it comes to male test subjects, but it is necessary to reach the desired goal. Not only is the research topic difficult, but she also must cope with many criticisms and obstacles. It is commendable how she can materialize her real-life experience including the time she worked for the SIREN program and that she is not afraid of directly, without any euphemisms to address any awkward topics. She can talk nonchalantly about the details of testicular injuries and eye gouging the same way as about gardening and cake cooking…squeamishness is definitely not in her dictionary. But I guess you know that from the course (Tina was smiling).

You recently defended your doctoral thesis. What is the title and topic?

My thesis has the title Evaluating physical last resort strategies to prevent rape. It covers a thorough investigation and evaluation of the techniques and finding the best strategies for incapacitation the attacker and enabling the victim to flee. We evaluated the effectiveness in targeting all vulnerable points on the male body: eyes, Adam's apple, penis, and testicles. To some extent, I investigated almost all of them, but I mainly focused on my and Linda’s favorite, testicles. As you know there has always been a lot of controversy surrounding these sensitive male organs. You can hear so many conflicting arguments and different pieces of advice, so we wanted to settle this debate once and for all. We wanted to address issues such as: How incapacitating it is, which techniques should be used to a level a woman can cause an injury, and even what is the best method to apply the most secure grasp even when the man has pants on. Now, we can confidently claim, that the success of targeting testicles is much higher than previously admitted, we have solid proof and evidence it simply works in many different situations and is highly incapacitating. I hope with our outcomes we put the long-standing debate to an end. However, we found out that, to achieve success, women must be taught these things properly without any reservation, and they must practice regularly as the automatic, correct, and right-moment execution of the techniques is crucial.

How did you find out? Can you tell us about your experiments?

Well, there were many, but I can tell you about one very interesting experiment in which we had two groups of female students. The control group was not taught any physical techniques, and the other test group was provided with detailed comprehensive information on the male anatomy and the vulnerable points of the male body, and how to injure those. Pretty much they were taught the same things as you were in the course. They could even practice some techniques on silicone testicles (We will talk about it later).

Many female participants report an empowering experience that they
share with their peers and express willingness to come back
We arranged a simulated scenario when they had to subdue a man attacking her. The first group's success rate was app. 20%, quite low in comparison to the second group for which the success rate went through the roof, reaching 70%. It was hilarious to see all those young guys on the floor clutching their anguished groins. We even had some medical emergencies, but luckily no permanent injuries, just some bruising and swelling of the scrotums. Sometimes we even had to step in to stop overenthusiastic women in their rage to prevent harm to male subjects. We calculated we could reduce the incidence the rape by at least half if we properly teach young women these techniques. This shows the barriers are not that difficult to break, we just need to find a better way how to empower women instead of saying: You are weak sex, live with it…and all that bullshit…excuse my language. It was amazing to see the ladies leaving the room with great confidence, evidently empowered, bragging about their new skills and ‘injuries’ they were able to cause on male organs when chatting with the other group…and the knowledge of newly gained power was transferred.

That’s quite fascinating. Any other experiment?

Part of my thesis was to find the best way to attack testicles with a hand in different situations on clothed or naked attackers. A serious issue, but I cannot recall having other times such great fun. We had two guys, with distinct types of scrotum: tight and loose. They exchanged different underwear and pants and of course, at some point, they had to undress completely. We had to cope with frequent unwanted erections, faints, intermittent screams, importantly also ‘Eureka’ moments. One female participant satisfied she finally managed to apply a secured lock on a tight scrotum, exclaimed: ‘Now is the time to test the best method for testicular rupture!’ The other girls around laughed, and the poor boys cringed. Well, it could be an interesting activity, but we cannot afford to put their delicate reproductive organs at such risk. Sometimes, the screams combined with loud laughter from our lab can be heard in the hallways, and we have people knocking on the door, being horrified, and asking what’s going on…Well, that’s the price of doing such innovative research. Now Linda can go to the course and teach you confidently what should you do when a filthy scrotum appears close to your hand.  

I would expect it to be difficult to get volunteers for your experiments, isn’t it? How do you attract them?

We recruit both female and male test subjects among faculty students; male subjects are usually semi-professional athletes. We prefer young fit men, with a good physique. It is telling to see their strength is in vain when applying the right techniques to the core of their masculinity. Before admission, they have to go through a rigorous selection process and we do not accept everybody. We look at the size and type of their pressure points including their genitals to account for as many variables as possible.

Male participants are selected from faculty students
based on different parameters. Muscular physique and
types of their genitals are some of them. 
And what does attract them? Surprisingly, there is no shortage of volunteers. Linda made several funny recruitment ads (Tina pointed at the posters on the wall with interesting graphics and text ‘We need your balls’), but I don’t think this is the reason. The motivations of the participants are diverse and differ between males and females. They usually get some ECTS points for volunteering and some small monetary compensation. I think many of them come out of curiosity and sometimes guys make a bet with their pals, or they are convinced it is just a prank and at the end, they are often unpleasantly surprised. The shock often comes the moment we ask them to expose themselves for genital evaluation. But that’s the game we play. They must sign a waiver and we brief them about what kind of participation we expect. Surprisingly many come back and want to participate again, even without any reward. Female participants often in the final questionnaire account for how empowering experience it was to participate in the project, and whether there is an opportunity to help more. Interestingly, since we started our research, we noticed fewer rape attempts reported here than other faculties. 

What is the most difficult part of doing the experiments?

Sometimes the experimental part is very demanding and not a piece of cake for the experimenter as well as a female, or male participant. First, we must break common barriers such as squeamishness, prudence, and shyness but we also must consider safety. The experimental setup inevitably involves handling bare genitals and causing pain, which can't be avoided. We often must repeat an experiment several times, even if we see the male subject cannot take it anymore. Simply we need enough repetitions to make a solid statistical conclusion. But how else would you answer the question of whether a particular technique is effective or not, without actually performing it in real? Some interesting questions were posted by your blog readers, regarding for instance the type of testicles and different situations that need to be investigated. But we always weigh the benefits and possible risks. Nevertheless, I admit some experiments can be fun and bring a lot of satisfaction in case of positive outcomes.

I heard from Linda about one unfortunate experiment when a volunteer ended up in the hospital can you tell us more about it?

So-called freezing is often considered a common problem in female self-defense. We wanted to investigate this phenomenon closely, so we simulated an unexpected hyperrealistic attack on me. I did not know when and where it was going to happen. One of our volunteers Mike, played out an attacker in the dark parking lot when I was leaving the campus. Maybe because I undertook training I did not freeze and reacted the best I could. A sharp elbow rear jab and a swift back kick with my heel did the ‘intended job’. The ‘attacker’ unfortunately…well if in real life fortunately…ended up in hospital with a broken rib and contusion in his left testicle. He recovered through but did not want to participate in our research anymore, which was a pity. I liked Mike a lot, he was a very useful male test subject.

I admit it was enjoyable when we trained with Bob and Peter. However, many women cannot train male partners. What is for example the best simulant of testicles or eyes? You already mentioned the silicone model...

Training self-defense and proper targeting of vulnerable points such as testicles or eyes is undoubtedly difficult. Of course, a real set of testicles is the best, but not always available so some realistic models help. In a small project, we tested different everyday objects and compared them to testicles, on all parameters including the texture and pressure necessary to cause rupture. We can recommend lemons and limes. These fruits are readily available in all grocery stores and when squeezing all the juice out, is a good exercise for gaining finger strength… of course, they are also a great source of vitamins as well. Plums and small apricots are also suitable analogs because of their right texture, shape, and size. As for the eyes, the gooseberries are excellent but sometimes hard to get. We sought to develop something more durable and nondisposable so we recently collaborated with a urologist from a nearby clinic Dr. Lane, and developed a prototype of a very true-to-life durable simulant of male genitals for some hardcore training. She provided us with critical parameters and valuable advice on anatomy and variables. No one knows better male genitals than someone handling them every day (Tina reached for the peculiar object and handed it to me for inspection. It was indeed almost like the real piece).

Realistic silicone models are being developed
for female self-defense training.
This thing is made from high-quality durable silicone and contains hard rubber testes with the same resistance as real glands with detailed plumbing attached including epididymis and spermatic cord. No death pinch will ever fail! With this strap, it can be easily fastened to common leather-kicking dummies and is perfectly sanitizable so can be used for training biting techniques as well. Linda has a pair of these and is going to use them in her course. We contacted some silicone molding companies for mass production, but all showed no interest, luckily, we found one with a female CEO who was very enthusiastic and wanted to help even without any financial profit, so I hope we can get it on the market soon.

I guess you need some ethics approval and what about funding such research?

That’s right, we have to apply for the ethics commission approvals, and it is always a pain in the ass. In the last couple of years, we have been lucky because of our female dean, who has been very supportive of our cause and not afraid to accommodate controversial research topics and ideas at the faculty. She clearly understands the significance and impact of the field and that the path to the results is challenging and not well-trodden. Without her, I have a doubt we could continue our work.

Not only ethics approvals, but it is also extremely difficult to get sufficient funding because of the contentious and neglected topic. We regularly receive a lot of harsh criticism, mainly from male management and application reviewers. We even get a type of response: Why does she need funding, all she does is squeeze testicles all day long, what kind of research is that? Damn, how ignorant! (Tina was visibly upset)

I heard you also gather and evaluate the data from real-life situations...

Testicles can swell to the size of oranges
after some proper 'treatment'.

Indeed, experiments are just part of our activities and medical and police reports are a very valuable source of data. We gather and review those and critically evaluate and statistically process all cases, both successful and unsuccessful. We also perform interviews with women with experience in such situations. It is interesting how many success cases go unnoticed by the press and media, which is a pity. Dr. Lane provided us with some valuable data from the emergency cases she encountered while working at the urology ER. I have seen pictures of attackers' genitals significantly ‘modified’ as a result of a successful counterattack. Not for the fainthearted, but quite telling. I did not know a scrotum could swell to the size of an orange. Dr. Lane said the best rapist deterrent would be to post them everywhere.

What are you working on right now and what are your plans for the future?

At the moment, I am writing a paper with a tentative title Glands and Glans - from neglect to focus.  It will be a more sociological/historical study of how perceptions of male genitals in the context of female self-defense have changed throughout history and what were the implications for the era. I would like to stay in academia and continue researching some novel innovative techniques Linda proposed; they all sound brutal and effective but at the same time very exciting to explore. I also have ideas about some unconventional methods for distraction and deception, which we can develop and evaluate on volunteers. But it all depends on the funding and whether we continue to receive positive support from our dean.

Thank you, Tina, for this interesting interview, I wish you a lot of success in your scientific endeavors!

122 comments:

  1. Very interesting article :) I agree wholeheartedly its important to practice to avoid any 'freezing' in the moment. I am curious how big of a difference size can make to effective preparedness. I have practiced on my husband with and without pants on. But...to put it delicate he's a bit in the smaller side in that department. Do you recommend practicing on a man a bit larger to be ready for any situation, or would it make and difference?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hi Grace, thank you for your comment it is good your husband allowed you to practice on him. This is an expression of attentiveness and care. The attackers come in different sizes the same for that one department :) the research shows attackers are driven by a high level of testosterone and that statistically means bigger glands producing that hormone. That's just a proven fact. The bigger balls mean also higher sensitivity. The best would be of course to practice on a man on a bigger side. Linda and Tina want her research and course to have model attackers with testicular variables covered. It is often not possible. Silicone testicles could help in this, better than nothing. Good luck with your training! Regards, Wendy

      Delete
    2. Grace, I can volunteer 😁

      Delete
  2. Hi Wendy, I'm curious, have you ever defended yourself in real life against an attacker/dangerous man? If you could provide details about the encounter, that'd be great!

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hi John, thank you for your question. Yes, it happened before I attended the course. It was a horrible experience, so I don't want to write about it now. At some point, I will for sure make a post about it. Regards, Wendy.

      Delete
    2. Hi Wendy, thanks for the reply. I'd like to hear if you or Linda have any real life testimonies about women who have successfully defended themselves against large males. I think we would all be keen to hear more about those stories. By any chance did any of them end up in testicle rupture for the male aggressor?

      Delete
    3. Hi John, thanks for your comment. Yes, she indeed has some stories to share especially the time she worked for the SIREN program. Yes, as far I know a testicular rupture was a result of some of the encounters. I have got some interesting stories from my readers as well. I will make posts about it. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
  3. Hi Wendy,

    This was a very dense post, so I have a few questions.

    Have you talked about the SIREN program before? I'm not familiar with it.

    Do you ever feel like the women are being flippant about the pain the male subjects are going through? There wasn't really a lot of sympathy "all those young guys on the floor clutching their anguished groins" who were laughed at, the man who was jokingly threatened with a testicular rupture, Mike after he had a serious testicular injury, and male subjects that "cannot take any more."

    Has it occured to anyone that some of the repeat male subjects are ballbusting/CBT fetishists?

    Do you know if she had any contact with Mike after the incident?

    How realistic did the fake genitals feel? They look very realistic. Initially, I thought they were an actual cock and balls. And then I saw they weren't attached to anything. And then realized they were fake.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hi Jay, thank you for your comment. No, I just mentioned the SIREN program in the interview with Linda, she was a part of the project to fight rape. I will make a post on it, there are still things classified or confidential but I got some insight from Linda. Quite interesting.
      Whether we are flippant? Maybe, I am sorry if I offended anyone, I would say we are not overly serious or compassionate at most. When Linda and Tina do research and we train self defense then we cannot be too caring and soft-hearted, this would hamper our goal. We do appreciate and acknowledge the men who help the cause.
      Some men may come back because they actually like it. If so, Tina and Linda have a good source of test subjects :)
      I did not ask her whether she had any contact with Mike. I expect I will talk to Linda and Tina at the same point again, as there are many topics to discuss, and I may find out.
      The silicone genitalia is indeed visually and texture like the real thing. Neither too soft nor too firm. Inside the scrotum, one can feel relatively hard testes. It is important to create the right mindset, so the best is to train on a real thing or something as close to reality as possible. Small fruits or golf balls in a sock can also help but are simply too different. Hope I was clear. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
    2. I want to clear something up. When you say, "We often must repeat an experiment several times, even if we see the male subject cannot take it anymore," I'd like to know what exactly that means.

      Do the silicone cock and balls come in any different shapes, sizes, or colors? Or do you expect there to be 1 model? And do you know if it was based on a specific man's genitals, or just generic "male genitalia number 3?"

      Delete
    3. Hi Jay. I am not a researcher but as far as I understood, you cannot rely on just one successful try. So imagine you are testing a technique for instance griping a testicle so you find a good way but you want to do it several times to be sure it was not just a lucky chance. Of course, it is difficult for a male test subject to go through so many repetitions. But that's the proper science practice. Hope I was clear. Regard, Wendy

      Delete
    4. Regarding, the model it was just one type as a prototype, but Tina later mentioned they would like to develop different variants, size of scrotum and testes, various lengths and girth of the penis, cut and uncut, etc.. As strange as it can sound skin color can be also quite important. As with everything money can be an issue, but they found a company that can help and produce more. I wish them the best of luck. Wendy

      Delete
    5. 'I did not ask her whether she had any contact with Mike.'

      Why would she have any more contact with him? He suffered serious injuries caused by her, and it is pretty obvious that she 'liked him a lot' and found him 'useful' because she was able to inflict serious injuries on him. Why would she be surprised he decided to end his participation as a 'male test subject'? She actually thought it he should continue after what happened to him? Sounds like Tina is really a chip off the Linda block, and has the same values towards males that she does...

      Small wonder Tina found getting ethics approval as pain in the ass....

      Delete
    6. Hi. Why should Tina not contact him and for instance ask him how he is going? I can imagine there can be some kind of bond or professional relationship between the experimenter and the test subject. She was doing important lifesaving experimentation and not inflicting injuries just for laughs. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
    7. 'Bond'? The guy was there to serve to be struck and whatever else in his testicles, just like those two guys in your course. It was not a 'professional relationship' of any kind , same for your instructor and the two young guys. She hits him hard enough to break one of his ribs, and you said someplace that he could have had to have one testicle removed because of her striking him. He decides to quit being a 'male test subject' after that, and the Tina lady can only say that it was a 'pity' and he was a 'useful' test subject? Perhaps not inflicting injuries 'for laughs', although that can't be known for sure, but she was certainly inflicting injuries on men. It seems these female self-defense teachers don't have any or much respect for the male test subjects while they are involved, either during the courses or research work, or afterwards when they seem to think it's ok to contact them rather than leave them alone and not bother them. Isn't it enough they risked their health and serious injuries during the courses for little or no money, and leave them be after their sessions are over? Why would she think he would ever want to talk to her again after what she did to him? She seems to see males as just things to use for benefit of women like that Linda lady did.

      Delete
    8. 'It was hilarious to see all those young guys on the floor clutching their anguished groins.' 'We often must repeat an experiment several times, even if we see the male subject cannot take it anymore.'

      This kind of captures this Tina lady's values towards the 'male test subjects'. Not humans, just 'test subjects'. What do you think she has the right to contact ANY of them after their term of use/abuse is over?

      Delete
    9. Don't you think it is very strange that this Tina seemed to think that it would be reasonable for that Mike guy to go back and be a 'test subject' (more like his testicles are the test subjects) after what she did to him? Why does she think men are just things for the use of people like her and that other woman for self-defense courses?

      Delete
    10. Now is the time to test the best method for testicular rupture!
      I am sure male 'test subjects' found that funny. Very respectful. Was this what you meant when you talked about a 'bond' and 'professional relationship". You are VERY biased against men for sure.

      Delete
    11. We often must repeat an experiment several times, even if we see the male subject cannot take it anymore.

      That's unethical AND abusive. I bet you have no problem with it though. The Tina lady obviously thinks it's fine. Male 'test subjects' are for testing, and she doesn't see them as human anyway. Works better for her I am sure.

      Delete
  4. i think eye gouging (probling like eye poking but really messing his eye) its a bit undercovered on your blog, regardless of your strategy going for the eyes is my opinion essential on a woman self defense repertoire. Without it a man can focus on defense his groin area, becuase most of woman strikes are endurable for a male body, but thanks to your fingernails on his eyes fear, he has to keep his guard up, having to deal with your testicle attacks with only his speed and reflexes

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hi André, you are absolutely right. I do neglect other targets on this blog. But testicles are the most interesting and not talked about, and I wanted to change it. It brings a lot of controversy, though. Eyes are a very good target although not like many trainers/experts say that eyes should be 100% preferred. As you said attacking eyes can be used for distraction and cause him to lower his guard, remove his hands from the lower area, and expose the vulnerable testies - an invitation for a nice blow :) I will definitely address this issue in some of my future posts. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
  5. So it looks tina is experiencing her quota of the gender wars. And she is not having it easy on an university (one of the most progressive places out there). Although she mostly devoted for potential new applications of testicle strikes, the underlying message its being proactive increases woman fighting prowess, and the underlying message of that its woman can get more control on deciding her fate.
    If you think its pretty much the red pill approach on dating, with a similar little concern for ethical measures. The main difference its red pill is more maleish. Yet there are even more similarities, the focus on fighting the other as a training to discover yourself, and overall the same pain while feeling impotency of changing certain realities.
    Both sides endlessly hating each other its good for Trump and the dems, yet its bad for us as a society.
    On my opinion it should not be humiliating to lose in 5 seconds to a woman because she got a quick kick in the nuts as it isnt to a woman to lose a guy on that timing because he punch her face.
    I think the strive to decide your fate and be better can be transversal upon genders, and should make Tina burocratic fights more manageable.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hi André, what Tina and Linda do is undoubtedly controversial with many associated ethical concerns regardless if the management is progressive or not. I am happy they do not give up because their mission is so righteous and in the end can be life-saving. But thank you André for your support, it is nice to see there are men out there who understand the issue. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
    2. i think there is both sides ism on genders wars, yet the thing its asimetric depending on the topic, on some ones men have a massive lead and on some one woman has one and it only ends with ther side yielding. Yet i think seing it as a whole package, advancing to a more unisex universal stuff it can be advances we as a society will celebrate. On this topic on particular i think you are right. There are no reasons to forbid woman to have a martial art or combat system who emphasize their strengths and focus on male weaknesses (physical and psychological). Its pretty much what man have with boxing, a style who boost man strenght and speed without having to deal with testicle strikes.

      Delete
  6. I think on this one the is an important research advance Tina and you may not be conscious. Although your style it's kind of being a sneaky dirty fighter who relies on tricks and mind games to get any advantage you can. Yet this research shows your style does it good on a open fair fight. its actually believed man has a massive lead over woman on fights yet here i seeing quite an equal field, if a woman focus on weak spots she can overcome man strenght and speed advantage and the cultural impact of that its gigantic

    ReplyDelete
  7. I agree that knowledge of male anatomy is very important for a woman's confidence in defending herself if attacked. My many years of experience as a female self-defense instructor confirms this.
    Even in many cases, it has been shown that that self-awareness alone was enough to deter an attacker.
    It shows up well in our classes. Some of the women, when practicing the testicle grab, will make the move so aggressively and uncompromisingly that our figurehead will react in exactly the same way as if she had actually grabbed the testicle and submit to her will without resistance. It's certainly pure instinct - I can't imagine it being acted out in any way.
    So I think a woman with confidence will defend herself, and a woman who doesn't have confidence could have an RPG in her purse and it wouldn't help her any.
    Petr

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hi Petr, thank you for your comment, I completely agree with you. The training to be effective should not be superficial and flimsy and require teaching deep knowledge of male anatomy and actually trying out the techniques in the most realistic scenarios possible. Can be awkward sometimes but gaining profound knowledge and skills also builds confidence and empowers, which in combination with instinct can do miracles. I had to find out what an RPG is:) but yes that's definitely impractical to carry in a purse:) Just a proper use of hands and knees can win a fight even against a larger and stronger attacker. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
  8. Of course, it is difficult for a male test subject to go through so many repetitions.

    This is how you describe how it is would be for the male test subjects to have their testicles squeezed over and over - 'difficult'? You say you were not overly compassionate. Your stories your write kind of suggest it would be closer to none of that. Same for that Tina lady.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Which word would you use? We both are compassionate but to do this kind of research you have to be a bit cold-blooded. Not the right word again but you know what I mean ;) Regards, Wendy

      Delete
    2. Well, that Tina lady certainly ascribes to the same values you do. And she ‘pitied’ the fact that the guy she put in the hospital decided he’d had enough of being a ‘test subject’, and according to what you or she said thinks it’s just find to call the guy up again? Doesn’t even extend enough respect to him to leave the man alone. Arrogant and selfish.

      Delete
    3. ‘Compassionate’ as in continuing to squeeze a guy’s testicles when he may be screaming and obviously can’t take it any more because the ‘research’ requires doing it? That’s cruel, abusive, and illegal in normal countries. Did Tina have any scruples about killing one of the test subjects?

      Delete
    4. You seem to have a good legal overview, so tell us. You can call anything cruel and abusive. But rape is, and we need to do research to fight it effectively. The end of the discussion. Wendy

      Delete
  9. It would be great to see a blank waiver form (the actual one used - not edited by you) to see what the two guys in your course and all the guys the Tina lady 'hired' to be 'test subjects' had to sign. Unfortunately, anything you posted would be extremely likely to have been edited, so I doubt we would ever see the real thing.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I can ask and post it, but these things can be confidential. For sure it is drafted so that the researcher can get the right result and the test subject won't sustain any serious harm. Pain, screams etc. is an inevitable part of this type of research. She is not doing theoretical math or astronomy. Wendy

      Delete
    2. you going to delete that etiquette story you made up, because it is obviously one huge lie?

      Delete
    3. It is not. Maybe we do not reach the ideals yet but we should at least try.

      Delete
    4. That etiquette post of yours was nothing more than blog PR. It's fiction, and it's obvious by countless comments you've made that you neither believe it or made any legitimate attempt to adhere to it. Your two heros sure as hell didn't. Do the right thing and delete it. Nobody believes it anyway. Just look at those posts by Jane as examples of how your female readers view male participation in female self-defense courses. You're not fooling anyone Wendy.

      Delete
  10. Sometimes, the screams combined with loud laughter from our lab can be heard in the hallways.

    No doubt the screams were seen my Tina as perfectly acceptable (to cause that kind of pain), since the 'test subjects' were there to feel pain, after all. The laughter was a real nice touch. Is that a form of respect for the test subjects, or could it possibly be what you claimed it wasn't - causing injuries 'for laughs'?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. They do not have money for a soundproof room. Yes, you often hear screams from sports halls and dojos. So what? So if they were not dead serious all the time, would it change anything? It is their job, let them do it the best way they can? The results are important. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
  11. Maybe that Tina lady should use your words for the two guys in your course and call them 'test dummies'? It would more accurately describe how she views them, after all.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Test subjects, model attackers, male participants... Does it matter? The terminology is not important, that they are owners of researchable sensitive anatomical spots, is. Wendy

      Delete
  12. They must sign a waiver and we brief them about what kind of participation we expect.

    This statement is NOT the same as briefing them on what THEY can expect to experience during the duration of their participation. Was she then like Linda and was intentionally vague, withholding certain information from them?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. What kind of information? They are participating in female self defense research. Do they expect to play scramble all the time? Don't project them as naïve. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
  13. One might argue that she occasionally crosses the line or maybe she is too uncompromised when it comes to male test subjects, but it is necessary to reach the desired goal.

    The classic 'the end justifies the means' 'justification'. At least this Tina lady reluctantly acknowledges the obvious. If a 'test subject' gets maimed or killed, Tina just keeps repeating this phrase to herself, like a mantra.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Did you read the interview, she said some things can be overboard and not ethical. So yes she has to make 'compromises'. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
    2. Was it ethical to do what Tina did to Mike?

      Delete
    3. Hi, well not an easy answer. Her research was approved by an ethical commission. Some might have an different opinion and I respect that. Using male subject is not completely avoidable in this type of research if you want to achieve significant results. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
  14. Continuing to squeeze a 'male test subject's' testicles past his obvious level of tolerance IS unethical, cruel, and abusive - whether you choose to approve that comment or not. Christ, you both hate men and promote/justify the same on this blog.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Without some 'cruel research,' we would not have some remedies. How else would you conduct this type of research to be valid? There is no hatred in it. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
    2. So, according to you, it is an acceptable practice to literally keep squeezing an innocent male test subject's testicles until it is obviously beyond his ability to tolerate? At what point should the female 'tester' release him - after he passes out, vomits, or his testicles are ruptured?

      Delete
    3. Well, Linda, has some medical background and should know better where is the line. No permanent physical harm for sure. You have not fainted or vomited ever? If you have to do it for a very good cause, would it bother you? Just asking. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
  15. Wendy, do you think Tina could arrange to have you participate as a female assistant during one of her research sessions - perhaps one where she is testing the best grip for executing the GTP technique. You could have another 'accident', and go full strength, performing the GTP on one of the fully informed, waiver-signed test subjects. Tina could secretly video the whole thing, including showing the guy on the floor, writhing, screaming, vomiting, convulsing, perhaps gong into shock and/or passing out. You could show a follow-up technique, such as actually blinding the test subject or performing a penectomy on him. You won't of course be charged with anything, and Tina could put that video on various sites and get huge royalties for it. Her funding problems would be gone forever, and all she would have to do is lie to the next batch of hapless volunteer test subjects, telling them that there has never been anyone seriously hurt, ever. Life would be dream for all of you. What do you think? Sound like a good plan?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thanks for the suggestion, I think Tina has enough willing female participants for now and I am busy with other things. Yes, they record the experiments but posting it would not be ethical also could go viral and she could fund her research! So plan good but not realistic. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
  16. Hello. you should ignore all the bad comments. all womens know that it ok if some mens get genitals destroyed if it helps womens learn defenses. maybe they die would not be good but if accident I think ok.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thanks for your support ;) I appreciate all men being ready to sacrifice their genitals on the altar of improving female self defense. Just kidding... No:)

      Delete
  17. This blog sucks.

    ReplyDelete
  18. blog sucks shit.

    ReplyDelete
  19. maybe you can adds weather reports or somethings when slow times?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Haha, I can tell you there will be a storm soon:) be careful. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
    2. Weather change bad now all times, never know when goes from bad rains to storms. Scary driving truck now. Different than way back.

      Delete
  20. who hates men more, Linda or Tina?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Why do you think they hate men? They just do important research and it inevitably involves using male test subjects, that's it. Do not make things up. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
  21. Probly same I say. Both ladies seem think it funny when they young helper guys are in very bad pains. not nice ladies.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hi, sometimes it is hard not to chuckle if a strong muscular man ends up so effortlessly on the floor crying. But they are of course not cheering when a man is in pain. This is necessary to do research. Maybe they are not nice, fine, but are for sure responsible and doing their job. Regards, Wendy,,

      Delete
    2. Hi Wendy , I've always wondered is it simply the comedy aspect of it or a rush of empowerment that makes the girls laugh at the kick to the groin ? I ask because I remember my big sis & mum squealing with joy if the girl in the avengers (purdey) tv series kicked a bad guy in the groin & floored him ? empowerment or comedy or maybe both ?

      Delete
    3. Hi Mac, I feel it both ways. Turning tables using a 'pain button' so easily is so ironic and satirical. All the stupid expressions and bending and whining of a moment-before confident and cocky guy is almost hysterically funny. The feeling of empowerment from the shift of power comes after, realizing this is often not just comedy but often reality which we could use to our advantage. No dangerous guy is safe! To be honest my boyfriend Tom does not like it while watching movies together. And there are a lot of groin shots in movies. His bad :) He learns to be more careful around me :) Regards, Wendy

      Delete
  22. What are they doing then when the man is on the floor in agony, crying? Making research notes?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Well, they need to record the outcomes. That's doing science properly. I think they also filmed it. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
    2. Do you think anyone bothered to help.the guy?

      Delete
    3. Sho played medic?

      Delete
    4. Linda has some medical background and was able to help if needed, if serious she would send him to the local ER, we actually had something like that at the campus medical center (doing a lot of sports results in frequent injuries). From my experience from the course, soothing words or gentle testicle massage and some time to rest and recover were usually enough :) Regards, Wendy

      Delete
    5. That didn't quite work for Mike though, did it? Given your penchant for lying, it's not possible to know how many other male lab rats ended up in hospital due to the actions of a female during either your course or Tina's 'research', is it?

      Delete
    6. No icepacks? What happened to the big budget for supplies - or did you mean just silicone training aids when you said supplies, and of course the paper to print the legal waivers on?

      Delete
  23. Gonna get a comment accepted..here I go..'Rain today, rain tomorrow, fills your heart and leaking car with water and sorrow.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hi Evan, you see I can approve a comment if it is not hostile :) And having a rhyme :). Take care. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
    2. This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.

      Delete
    3. Hi Evan, I am busy. But no worries, I am not upset, I wish you well. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
  24. What do you think Linda actually said to Peter and Bob regarding the injuries they could suffer?

    ReplyDelete
  25. Roses are red, castrating test subjects is in favor,
    Especially when the female attacker is protected by a waiver.

    ReplyDelete
  26. Is Linda or Tina your biggest hero and role model?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Sure they are great scientists working hard to make the world safer for us . It is not their fault testicles are such a great target for striking. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
    2. I bet it was tina cause she actually caused a guy to go to the hospital and came closer to causing him to lose a testicle, so that would be much closer to what you want to do to male assistants.

      Delete
    3. No of course I don't want that. But accidents do happen. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
  27. You want to de-taboo this, that's why some men here also get angry.
    The topic - the attack on the testicles, is often a small taboo in society.
    And I understand, it's better for men if it's taboo. But for women it is the opposite. For women, it would be ideal if the testicles were only a normal thing that can always be hit. And the ideal thing for to hit.

    Also nice article for this topic:

    https://ballbustingbulletin.wordpress.com/2024/04/21/break-the-taboo-grab-em-by-the-balls/

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hi, thank you for the comment. Yes, I understand that this topic is quite sensitive for men, and they don't like talking about it. You can see how some men get upset in the comments. Although I have some sympathy for the qualms we should be provided with the best possibility to fight back and unfortunately (or fortunately:) it involves the two little sensitive thingies hanging between their legs. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
  28. Hi, Wendy. Do you know how they decide what is and isn't safe enough for the male subjects to do? And if the pain level is taken into account?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hi, thank you for your comment. I imagine it can be difficult to find the right border, but I am convinced that Linda has a lot of experience to say what is still safe and what is going overboard and is dangerous. The danger is not completely avoidable in this kind of research. My guess is that pain is not taken into account as much as the likelihood of a permanent injury such as rupture or torsion. Testicles and all the surrounding plumbings are not only sensitive but also very fragile organs and this should be taken into account. As cruel as it might sound if a man screams it is a sign of the experiment going well. I can ask next time I visit Tina or Linda if I was invited to participate in one of their experiments! Regards, Wendy

      Delete
    2. God help any male research subject unfortunate enough to have you involved in the 'research' while he is there... One can only imagine how many 'accidents' you would have....

      Delete
    3. So, presuming that Tina did not lie about Mike fully recovering in hospital, what happened to him (bruised/cut to one testicle and a broken rib) are considered reasonable and acceptable injuries to inflict on an innocent male research subject, is that correct?

      Delete
    4. Well, I don't know if he fully recovered, and don't think Tina went to check his testicles personally. I don't want to go into the discussion again but answer first what is an acceptable injury for a sport e.g. a box or gymnastics. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
    5. If the screaming male research subject passes out and/or vomits, does Tina 'allow' him time to regain consciousness and recover before she subjects him to the next research technique?

      Delete
    6. Why would Tina go 'check' his testicles' Wendy? She isn't a medical professional, is she now? If Mike did not fully recover, then of course he would be unable to seek compensation due to that waiver. Why do you think he would be interested at all in talking to her ever again? Since he had already indicated that he was not continuing in the 'research program' after Tina's actions were directly responsible for him having to be hospitalized, why or why do you think it is appropriate for that bitch to ever contact him again?

      Delete
  29. When we can expect new blog and what will be the topic

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I am working on it, unfortunately, I am very busy. Hopefully, I can find some time. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
    2. What kind of topics you would like to cover? Wendy

      Delete
    3. Inspirational storys & Susan E. Smith and male vulnerability in popular culture.

      Delete
    4. How about telling us about all the times you have lied to and manipulated your boyfriend in order to use his body as your own personal self-defense technique testing device?

      Face it, we all know you lie as often as you breathe, so why don't you share a few classics with your rabid female followers?

      Delete
    5. Can you please cover permanent blinding (not just eye pokes), as a male that cannot see and is also castrated from GTP or death pinch is the kind of male the majority of your female readers want.

      Delete
    6. Your stories, rupturing testies with teeth, techniques when guy is sitting with legs spread

      Delete
    7. I do my best. Writing takes time... Regards, Wendy

      Delete
    8. Yup.. Hope to see teeth bite testicle technique by Wendy using professional way to explain.

      Delete
  30. Have you EVER said anything complimentary about men - other than reluctantly acknowledging male training assistants for risking their reproductive organs for the benefit of you and other bitches just like you?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hi Evan, not true on numerous occasions I had some nice words for you. Thank you for your donation BTW. You can be a nice, courageous, and generous guy.... only if you behave more often.... Regards, Wendy

      Delete
  31. Screams (of pain), combined with loud laughter coming from a 'research' area where severe pain is intentionally inflicted on innocent males must make you smile and get you all hot and bothered, hey Wendy?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hi Evan, I do pity those young men. But it is their sacrifice for science. Well, I admit I am not dead serious and uptight like you so I did chuckle at the idea. Participation in such research can be quite 'interesting'. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
    2. There is no need to 'pity' them Wendy as you say. But respecting and appreciating them very much for the risks they take AND the pain and other unpleasant things they experience to help your friend Tina would in my option be the minimum you should express. They were not attackers, and as you say yourself, you want to have real human beings to use in this 'research'.

      - Evan

      Delete
    3. Wendy,
      I'll wager (if i was a betting man) that IF it was you lying on the ground in writhing agony, the word you would decidedly not use to describe that experience would be 'interesting'...
      - Evan

      Delete
    4. Evan, I said numerous times I do respect and praise them. Wendy

      Delete
    5. More than anything, you’re glad your hero Linda was able to successfully deceive them into agreeing to participate in the course, and given her power over them, able to do whatever the fuck she wanted to and with them. The female dean obviously wasn’t concerned about them, and it’s fucking obvious the end justifies the means to Linda as well as you. Same applies for the males Tina talks into risking time in the hospital and potentially lifelong impacts on their health. You have a seething hatred for men, are violent and cruel, and your hostility towards men is obvious to anyone that follows this blog and is actually capable of thinking critically. You see men as things for women to use to learn self-defense, and think it’s also reasonable and defensible if the occasional male test subject suffers a ruptured testicle or even castration if in doing so it contributes to women learning how to defend themselves. We will never, ever agree on much, if anything at all. I find you to be a vile and exceedingly unpleasant individual.

      Delete
    6. Hi Evan. No, we do not have to agree on everything or anything. I write this blog and we can discuss things in a cultivated decent way, which you unfortunately break all the time. If you have your own idea of how to run an effective female self defense course please write in the comment so far I only read from you vulgar criticism. I never call you a vile unpleasant individual see the difference. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
  32. How sure can you be that the decrease in reported rapes is actually fewer rapes and not women having other methods to be abusive to the men in their lives?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I think Tina did some research into it. Fear of her special techniques can do miracles ;) Wendy

      Delete
    2. Hi Wendy! ) Tina has a good collection of male organs, but again, she doesn't have any similar to mine. )

      Delete
    3. Hi Leonid, I thought the poster represents absolutely all types, you must have a very special type :) Regards, Wendy

      Delete
    4. Here in this thread, about male anatomy, we already discussed this)) I described my structure in detail https://lastresortselfdefense.blogspot.com/2020/08/male-anatomy-testicles-size-and-shape.html?m=1 You said that you saw this on naturist beach. My structure makes me especially vulnerable to some techniques. You described it to me well. I even wanted to wear a cup all the time))

      Delete
  33. It's interesting how Tina describes the incident with Mike, and how she frames his decision not to continue participating in her 'research' program. There was no statement that said something like 'Mike elected not to continue participating in the program, which in the circumstances was completely understandable'. She uses the words 'pity' and 'useful' - clearly conveying that the program lost a 'useful' test subject, and that it wasn't Mike that should be pitied for the injuries he incurred due to her own actions, but rather his departure was a 'pity' for the program. This impersonal, almost clinical manner of speech is classic for someone like her that sees the males as inanimate objects whose value is limited to allowing her or her flunkies to test different techniques out on him - some or which clearly carry significant risks for the male. You admire women that have the same simmering hostility and hatred for men as you do. Congratulations.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hi Evan, have a nice summer and don't take things too gravely. You are a good man just a bit too hot-headed. I cannot approve your posts for obvious reasons neither comment on them I did explain myself already. Regards, Wendy

      Delete
    2. If I had a blog where I made a lot of cruel, sarcastic, disrespectful and demeaning comments about female assistants in a men's self-defense course, and also directed many of those comments towards women in general, I'd wager you would get hot-headed. You invite the anger you get by the comments you make and those you allow -like those from that Jane woman.

      Delete
  34. You should have congradulated her for almost popping Mike's ball.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I think that would make more sense if she'd actually popped it.

      Delete
  35. Has your hero Tina or any of her female assistants maimed any other test subjects that you know of, or was Mike the only one so far?

    ReplyDelete