We all must
learn from the lessons of the past. Unfortunately, some important stories we
could learn from are not told loud enough or even at all. With this post, I
continue the popular series of inspirational stories to educate and empower.
Despite not considering myself a crazy movie fan, I have always been intrigued by the Hollywood golden
era of cinema. In my mind, it was a unique time of excitement, glamour, and cultural boom. I
recently read a very interesting biographical article about one of the female movie
stars from that era, Shirley Temple. She started acting at a very early age and
gained incredible fame. Despite having great success in the movie industry and even in
diplomacy, she went through many difficulties in her life. One of the deeply troubling
issues in her acting career, she recalled in her memoirs. Being an attractive
young actress, she was constantly sexually attacked by powerful executives,
producers, and co-workers. It seems the way how it works in the entertainment
business: I get sex and you get the job, is apparently a pattern over a century-long
and was fully exposed just recently by the MeToo movement. The paradox is, in
comparison to the actresses from the modern era, she handled some uncomfortable
situations extremely well. I want to share with you an account I took
from a media network Ranker.com:Shirley Temple in 1941
For the
entirety of her brief film career, Temple was forced to fight off sexual
predators, as she was regularly groped, threatened, and terrorized by men.
After she
rebuked one Hollywood producer for his advances, he responded, “Look, I’m going
to be a big executive. We’re going to have to get along... What I had in mind
was just a workplace formality.”
“It may
be in your contract, but not mine,” she replied.
“Sex is
like a glass of water,” the man she simply refers to as “Wizard” continued.
“You get thirsty, you drink. You want sex, you have it.”
Then
there was the beloved comedian George Jessel, who once invited her to his
office to “discuss a key role” in his upcoming film:
We were
standing a pace apart, eyeball to eyeball. In one swift movement he opened his
trousers and, with a sudden reach, encircled me with one arm… I could feel his
other hand groping to lift my shirt. Hard on the heels of the Wizard, this new
assault seemed unreal, but little could I do but thrust my right knee upward
into his groin... Pain, disgust, and hate flickered across his face, but I felt
no mercy. More and more the adult movie business seemed populated with a bunch
of copulating tomcats.Lift my skirt without permission, get a knee,
that's how it worked in the golden era of Hollywood.
Shirley reacted
swiftly, responsibly, and resolutely. I assume she had not attended any fancy
self defense course and despite that, she was able to handle the situation extremely well. It reminded me of another inspirational story from an actress, I already published some years ago.
As Shirley
said, the asshole deserved no sympathy. Hopefully, he learned his lesson; he
could feel lucky she did not use any other more brutal self defense techniques,
given his genitals were exposed and in the end did not lose any of his two precious
organs. Maybe I would go far with this comment, but I truly think if all young actresses were
told how to handle pushy horny men, we could have avoided all those tiring
Hollywood sex attack scandals and allegations. What an inspiring story from
such a wonderful woman….
P.S.
Some of you wrote me very interesting stories via email and I want to publish them all in this renewed series, just that I must find time to provide the necessary commentary. I ask you for patience.
This has to be one of your worst stories, although it has a lot of competition, let’s face it..
ReplyDeleteHi. Why? It is actually a very nice real-life story showing that women in the past could defend themselves. Wendy
DeleteWhat would you do differently in this same situation
ReplyDeleteHi. Well, most likely I would do the same. A knee is effective and appropriate. If the situation was more threatening I would use some of the most brutal Linda's techniques :) Wendy
DeleteWhat more brutal you would do?
DeleteWell, pretend interest, reaching for his filthy genitals, and when he thinks it is going all his way perform the best GTP on a testicle the world has ever seen. He would rethink his priorities. he should be happy it was just a rather warning lecturing knee. Regards, Wendy
DeleteNice!
ReplyDeleteAny time a story ends with a hard knee to the scrotum it’s a happy ending.
Hi. I agree! :) It ended well for Shirley but not so good for the perpetrator. Regards, Wendy
DeleteDo you have another self-defense type blog that is a lot more brutal than this one? someone posted on a marshal arts site you might.
ReplyDeleteHi.. Hahaha, do you think this one is already not brutal enough... :) I don't have another blog... Regards, Wendy
DeleteI think they want pics of the brutality.
DeleteIt's brutal enough.
Delete-Evan
Not gonna lie, good pictures of your techniques in action would be interesting.
DeleteHi, OK I'll do my best :) Wendy
DeleteIs you old enough to knows that ladies? Your picture make you look very younger than her times.
ReplyDeleteHi, no I have just seen a movie she played in. She was an actress during the 30s-40s how should I know her? :) Regards, Wendy
DeleteWendy is actually 132, but due to a healthy diet, exercise, good genes, and Oil of Olay she is much younger looking....
DeleteI agree. I read on another blog that Wendy gets asked for ID at all the bars in Europe cause she looks so young... -:). BUT, Linda told me she IS really 132...
Delete- Evan
Haha, training self defense in Linda's course can be very rejuvenating :) Regards, Wendy
DeleteIs that because the hatred you have for men along with the ability to inflict pain on innocent males during her course without fear of any consequences whatsoever was 'rejuvenating' for you?
DeleteHola Wendy,creo que una gran mayoría de mujeres no creen que la defensa y golpes en los testículos funcione de verdad,x eso si ves pocas o casi ninguna comenta por aquí esas situaciones..
ReplyDeleteHola Adrián,
Deletetienes razón. Por eso comencé este blog. Publicar estas historias, para que las mujeres puedan ver estos ejemplos inspiradores. Saludos, Wendy.
All us regular viewers/readers voted, and 95.378% of us agreed that Wendy should stop taking so many holidays and do more blog stories. Holidays are bad.
ReplyDeleteHaha, maybe taking my holidays is bad for the readers, but good for me. I am working on the next post. Regards, Wendy
DeleteI contacted Wendy's boss and told her that Wendy should only have weekends and regular statutory holiday days off from now on....She agreed.
ReplyDeleteWell done Shirley really hope more women would be like her. Every woman knows a man balls are vulnerable so knee, kick, crush them whatever needs to be done
ReplyDeleteHi Denis, I agree. Knowledge is power. This isvery inspirational that women of that era knew how to handle such situations. Regards, Wendy
DeleteDo you have any opinions on this? https://ballbustingbulletin.wordpress.com/2024/05/05/teach-girls-to-castrate/
ReplyDeleteHi, thank you for your question and link. The essential goal is not to learn how to castrate but to get the right knowledge, courage, and capability to effectively self defend even if this means partially or fully destroying the male reproductive glands. It sounds horrific and repulsive but can save from rapes and losing lives. Regards, Wendy
Deletethe scene is happening on a context, any moment before or any moment after she could kick him in the balls, and even if its a public setting she would more or less get away with it, i know lots of stories and woman rarely face any consequences and when they do they tend to be very lightly (a suspension in college),
ReplyDeleteWoman supremacy can be a surprisingly physical concept
What's the maximum number of castrated research subjects per year the female dean would allow before she would ask Tina to adjust her approach?
ReplyDeleteHey, nobody wants to castrate anyone. Only 1 ball per male, is that clear?
DeleteIs the comment above your idea of humor Wendy?
DeleteHaha maybe like 10. Just kidding, of course, no intended castration was allowed. Testicular injuries were just an inevitable part of the research process. Either you allow Tina and Linda to do the research properly and rigorously or there is no point in doing such research. Regards, Wendy
DeleteI'd still like to know how an "acceptable" injury is determined.
DeleteJust face it men are superior. Women don’t stand a chance
ReplyDeleteNope, already this story shows its other way around :) Wendy
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