Friday 25 September 2020

To pick a plum

‘Have you ever harvested fruits from trees in an orchard?’ asked Linda during one of our classes. ‘If the fruits are not fully ripe this can be tricky’, she added. ‘You have to hold the fruit firmly, twist it and then pull it till the spur gives, and the reward ends up in your hand.  

This is also the principle of one of the most effective moves of the last resort self defense, sometimes referred to as the grab, twist and pull move or GTP in short’. She explained us that one of the variation she teaches is for  a situation where you have a good access to exposed attacker’s genitals. Unlike general GTP, this move specifically involves grabbing only one testicle. Why only one? There are several reasons for that. Most female hands are not big enough to fully enclose both organs. Attempting this can lead to losing the grip completely. Testes are freely mobile within the scrotum and can slip out from the grip easily, especially if the lock mechanism is not applied correctly. A firm clasp on one testicle allows for more rotation during the twist part and further stretching the connective tissue during the jerking motion. Also, the squeezing power does not dissipate between the two organs but is more focused on one of them causing more pain. 

This move can be performed during different attempted rape scenarios and from different positions: either when you are kneeled and forced to oral sex, in a sitting position, standing face to face or when he is on top of you attempting the penetration. In all cases your hand is within a convenient reach of his testicles. However, there is one limitation to this technique, and that his scrotum sac has to be relatively loose. Once he gets hard and the scrotum become tight there are other techniques which should be used instead and will be discussed in separate posts.

The figure below should guide you through the technique.

(A) The technique should be applied if you encounter an attacker with a loose scrotum like the one depicted in the picture. Note that as in most men the left testicle hangs lower and should become your target. By using fake compliance and play along approach you should be able to gain access to his genitals. It is important that you do not telegraph your intention. The best is to caress his genitals first, stroke his penis gently with your hand to convince him you are into him. Manipulate him to drop his guard. Feel or probe his testicles before striking until you are confident you can go on with the technique. 

If you at any point  find out you cannot follow through with the technique, you can wait for the next opportunity. However, once you initiate the move do not hesitate and continue with full force and determination till the end (until he is unconscious).

(B) The technique starts with putting one of his testicles (usually the left lowest hanging) in a tight lock. Engage your forefinger and thumb tightly around the root of the scrotum above the testis. You should have now the testis trapped in the palm of your hand. If, for any reason, isolating one testicle is not possible, grab both. Also, you should use your stronger hand or the hand which is free enough.

(C) Squeeze the testis in your palm as much as possible and then twist it around at east by 180°. This entangles the connective tissue and entraps the testis so it cannot slip out. Be careful to maintain the tight lock with your fingers.

(D) Instantly, with no hesitation jerk down with a sharp motion. If you are standing or sitting, jerk  outward. This is an extremely important part of the move. Use the whole momentum of your arm or by dropping down, use your weight to add power. Visualize ripping the testicle off his body. You can also place your other hand on his pubes pushing it the other direction to give you more leverage. Keep on pulling and squeezing by pushing the thumb into the center of the testicle against your other fingers. He is going to pass out in a couple of seconds. Release the hold only you are sure he is totally incapacitated and no threat to you anymore.

Why is it so effective? Unlike just squeezing, when it takes longer time for pain to kick in, the injuries here are instant, so is his reaction. A massive pain and shock set in immediately. When executed correctly this should tear his spermatic cord and detach the epididymis from the back of the testis. A damage which usually cannot be repaired. 

58 comments:

  1. which is better this move or a kick? isn't this move gonna make the attacker angry and give him time to fight back?

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    1. Kicks are also quite effective, but both moves are suitable for different situations. When you want to neutralize your attacker standing in some distance from you it is better to use kicks. If you are already very close to him and your hand is close to his exposed genital area than you should perform the grab twist pull move. If you perform it correctly, he will be immediately and completely stunned and rigid to do anything. He will just cry, convulse and pass out in no time. Even if you fail doing the move properly he will be still in pain and this give you an opening for other technique like an eye gouge. When his hands go up, strike his testicles again.

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    2. You're one vicious bitch Wendy, that's a fact.

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    3. OK, But what are you, Evan? A saint?

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    4. I'm the only independent, objective and rational voice that posts - or rather submits posts, on this blog. I'm the only one that calls you on your numerous contradictions, bizarre justifications, hate and open hostility towards men, sadistic nature and lack of accountability for promoting the types of behaviours you do. A saint? Certainly not, but I'm not one who hosts a blog that holds the view that half the world's population are likely or possible rapists, and promotes a level of viciousness that is deeply unsettling. That's who I am...

      Evan

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    5. Yes Evan, but you also forgot comment spamming and being vulgar. Everybody is entitled to an opinion or own believes. I do not promote unjustified violence. An I do like men, even you. Wendy

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    6. How the hell could you like me Wendy? That has to be up there on the long list of irrational comments you've made on this blog...

      Which men do you like? It seems only the ones you've caused significant pain to, like you boyfriend and the two 'training dummies' that you also called heroes... that term has connotations that seem rather inconsistent with use of the word hero as a synonym...

      Evan

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    7. I do like you, like it or not :) Well love can be sometimes painful Evan. You do not have any sense of humor and for you causing pain is the most important aspect to judge human relationships. A mother sometimes slaps her misbehaving kid, but it does not mean she doesn't love it. Wendy

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  2. as a man I confirm that he squeezes his testicles with his hand and the most painful thing there is

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  3. Hi, thank you for this great article!

    BTW, 'allowed myself to link up to your blog from https://www.tamakerido.com/

    Senseï Ikaïzashen Tokaïdo

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    1. Dear sensei Tokaïdo, thank you for linking my blog. Wendy

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  4. Allowing myself to comment, my great student! :-)
    (B): this is correct, get one testie instead of both, always better. And crush the epididymal channel as hard as possible between your thumb and main bone index finger. And crush the shit out, it paralyses and lock the nerves of all the man, trust me (they tried, women on mines!). When she holds u like that, u're just paralyzed to ask to stop. Keepin' a weaky like that would make him fall and lose consciousness.

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  5. 2nd comment:
    (C): this is incorrect, the 180° won't work, ineffective. Mines, would rotate easily individualy at 360° without any pain. But rotating both, becomes truely lock you can't go further, and so giving pain, when reaching close to 720°. Also, just rotating like that is more of a warning even if it's done with firmness and lots of agressivity. Rotating both testicles is more for arousal/exciting giving some form of Tantra to your lover playing with by maximum rotation of both. Rotating one is just like useless, either for martial strikes and also for "lovers things".
    So, just consider that (B) as I commented previously is the right manoeuver for martial action when grabbing /squeezing an opponent or enemy.
    Senseï Ikaïzashen Tokaïdo / https://www.tamakerido.com/ aka CCK

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    1. Thank you for the comment sensei :) This technique consists of 3 elements. grab/squeeze, twist and jerk. All three steps are important and extremely effective but must come together in a quick execution. This is to cause a permanent injury especially tearing the cords and connective tissue. For this reason I do not recommend to train the jerk on a living set of testicles. If only squeezing is the option you are right a woman should focus on the epididymis as it is the most sensitive part of the testis. I will describe the technique of 'death pinch' in one of my future posts. Wendy

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    2. 'This is to cause a permanent injury especially tearing the cords and connective tissue. For this reason I do not recommend to train the jerk on a living set of testicles.'

      You mean I presume on a living male human being? So, 'do not recommend' reflects how strongly you feel that a technique intended to cause 'permanent injury (i.e. testicular rupture and likely castration) should not be used on a male who is participating in a women's self-defense course?

      Do you really wonder why men think you are a hateful and sadistic person Wendy?

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  6. (D): pulling when grabbing either one or both is always for sure something that can be practiced and used with something else, like a combo with a arm lock, strike in the nose, or just make a weaky go down then kakato geri his throats for example. As for experience and practiced proven with female students, only (B) as I told you in my prev. comment, hard crushing the nerves of the epididymal area with your thumb and index finger is the only truely effective move to strike truely to death one of the two testicles in this legendary (grabing the balls and squeezing works in movies) action attempts. It just paralyzes myself when my students are trying it on either of my balls, first they are not able for sure during first strikes to squeeze enough but when they truely apply the full force of their little fingers, I always got paralyzed and unable to strike them (even if they are complete beginners), and even unable to remove their grip by trying to open the fingers of the hand holding me like that. Then after a few seconds like up to 10 maximum of trying, I have to say "Break!" to be released, otherwise, the pain would be just much for me, yes, even for me, so you know, it works, and truely yeah, waw! After like 10 to 20 strikes like that on each of my balls, we have to take a break! I love my students so much you know, I can endure for them! It gives women of all ages so much confidence having been successful to lock the master like that! Like spending half an hour paralyzing me this way, like 2x10 times on each testicle! Yea, so in theory and practice, (B) like I just told. Rotations they're kinda usesless, they're not martial enough to be even practiced.
    Senseï Ikaïzashen Tokaïdo / https://www.tamakerido.com/ aka CCK
    https://ello.co/northropgrumann/post/swqy4ikikkfqwkq80ny6ew

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  7. As for kicks, they are very dangerous for men having weak structurality of the testicles. "Sissy" guys just fall down making a high pitch noise just for slow kick of no martial interest.
    For practicing kicks, it is always naked feet, and first with a cup, as getting pain for nothing is only masochism.
    Then trying, without the cup, faster and faster. But you know the brain is well made, my students never hurt me truely, they can not kick me full force even when I tell then "come on! stronger!". It's just the same for students wanting to check the strength of their boobs to punches of kicks, I never can punch them for real. These are highly intimate and sensite parts, so even if it is for the science of martial arts, we are cautious by design and can not truely hurt ourselves when practicing/training.
    Kicks also depend of which part of the foot or leg hit and where. A good kick with a pointey boot can kick a weak sissy with weak fragile testies and leads to testicle torsion and even sometime the ball stuck inside the belly unable to go out! Shitty ass dies like that you know! And well, they shall respect women.
    Kneeing will always give a more crushing effect, and as we all know more by surprise in the closest ranges. Also greatly devastating, but to damage/injure and kill a bogey, kicks are always more effective, truely more dangerous than knees.
    So (B) if he's trying to make it, like a bogus boyfriend, a ex, a drunk or whatever starting to underpant.
    Knee for sure in close range.
    Kick with a solid pointey boot or shoe, are, when full speed, always the best to immediately send to the hospital a weak baller.
    Period.
    Then, any other things is business and blablabla!
    Yea truely!
    Reespect for your blog and martial studies, and contact me if you wish, you're welcome.
    +33 768 342 473
    Senseï Ikaïzashen Tokaïdo / https://www.tamakerido.com/ aka CCK
    https://ello.co/northropgrumann/post/swqy4ikikkfqwkq80ny6ew

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  8. Typos fix:
    And having the Hara is not a special breathing technique or doing some gym or inflating the belly. It's the Henshin in you.

    Just do practice with the best, and discover after one or two years of intensive work if you have something inside the belly.

    The strength of testicles is here, in the strength of your war/fighting Ki energy. Saying like the strength of a warrior is in the balls is kinda truely wrong, they're sexual organs.

    There if you got the machine inside your belly, then you know, girls can try to reach your balls kicking/kneeing or whatever, you'll "Hensh!" out of and quickly grab their boobs cuz they tried to strike you there in between the legs, or whatever, like a ushiro mawashi geri in the fucking mouth!

    Fun comes when your Hara reveals to you after like one/two years of training/learning. The Force.

    Senseï Ikaïzashen Tokaïdo / https://www.tamakerido.com/ aka CCK
    https://ello.co/northropgrumann

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  9. TYPOS: fixed.
    If you have no Hara, your Karate combat displacements will always be slow/shitty/amateurish/predictable... Never LEET!. Having the Hara is the secret of having top level Karate combat displacements/shiftings/legs swapping. The same for everything truely from here, like ushiro ura mawashi geri. Doing gym for abdomen for sure, it's the training, but if you have nothing inside, even if you're a professional competitor training 4 hours a day, you'll always be blazed out by a Henshin Hara opponent making u know this: Karatedo magic others can not do.

    Senseï Ikaïzashen Tokaïdo / https://www.tamakerido.com/ aka CCK
    https://ello.co/northropgrumann

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  10. Also...

    Using my Hara, girl could break her anckle kicking me in the balls. And my balls being hit would give me the nerves, to quickly break into her and break the shit outta the bitch!

    Truely! Real men never get hit in the balls! If one woman tries, she'll never try again!

    Hara gives energy to the martial moves war you're making around, in the Kata of your life.

    Senseï Ikaïzashen Tokaïdo / https://www.tamakerido.com/ aka CCK
    https://ello.co/northropgrumann

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  11. I've just discovered your amazing blog! For me as a man the vulnerability of the testicles is a frightening but also fascinating topic, and I'm quite sure it has never been discussed in such a width and depth as here in your blog. A special praise goes to the superb illustrations: your drawing of how "to pick a plum" (cool name btw) is clearer than that famous picture of the "Testicle Twist" (and your technique also seems to be more effective). Keep up the good work!

    Looking forward to your future blog posts - hopefully you will cover the "death pinch" soon, as I am really curious about that scary sounding move!

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    1. Hi Max, I am happy you find my blog interesting. I understand it can be uneasy for men to read but these things simply have to be discussed. Illustrations do help with visualization of the techniques and for teaching proper execution. Also using testicle simulants such as plums helps :) Pick a plum is indeed a brutal method and when executed correctly causes serious damage, but sometimes it is necessary to avoid rape. Death pinch is similarly effective but a much more technical move and requires good knowledge of the testicle anatomy. Have a nice day, Wendy

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    2. "Death pinch is [...] a much more technical move"
      Much more technical than "picking a plum", which is already quite technical imo? This makes me even more curious! ;-)

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    3. Hi Max, I would have to find time to write about it. It needs quite some explanation :) To perform it effectively requires solid knowledge about the man's testicles and also good practice. It is not just the typical 'groin grab' technique. So you have to be patient, sorry Max :) Wendy

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    4. Of course I am patient - but I'm really looking forward to that blog post!

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    5. I am eager to see more crushing technique by Women hand, how a small hand of them can manage to pressure the organ until rupture especially the big one and pinch the epididymis until he pass out. I am quite sure most mens semen will leak out from the penis when doing this technique.

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    6. Hi, I will write more about some of these techniques. Yes, pinching epididymis can lead to leakage of fluids. Gros but it is an effective technique and is advisable to use in a dire situation. Regards, Wendy

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    7. Thanks, hope can see your new article soon.. ^^

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  12. Wendy, is it possible to kill the guy from this technique?

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    1. Hi, yes this can cause a neurogenic shock. Does not happen always but can. The purpose of the techniques is to rather incapacitate and flee. Regards, Wendy

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  13. This one sounds pretty harsh. Is this the most likely technique to cause a man to lose a testicle?

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    1. Hi Jay, it can cause torsion and detachment of the epididymis. Sometimes it is reparable sometimes not. Again this technique is for some serious situations. Wendy

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    2. When the class practiced this on Bob and Peter, did you get a chance or did the other girls rip all 4 testicles off before you had the chance?

      (There are definitely people that need this disclaimer: I'm joking.)

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    3. Ripping their testicles would mean there would mean no more testicles left for training other techniques :) (just kidding). Wendy

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  14. Why don’t you answer the comments asking you about this post?

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  15. Hi Wendy.. again i am asking the same question, for small women like me just size 41kg can my hand have enough power to rupture a testicle? as i know my BF tell me the organ is quite difficult to rupture even they are supper sensitive.. is there any squeeze techniques to increase the rupture chance? full force is a must but i am not sure if there is any technique use less force but can cause the tunica albuginea to tear open because it will buy more time to escape.

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    1. Hi, sorry for not answering. Yes, you are petite but if you know the right technique you can still rupture a testicle. You can use your nails, for instance, you have to grow them long enough you can use them to pierce the tunica albuginea and then to squash a ball into oblivion. Use your thumbnail and sink it deep into the center of a testicle. Sounds brutal that should be a response to a sex attack. The other fingers should assist you in keeping the grasp on the testicle. There are many techniques for small female hands. I am writing a post about the death pinch, in this case, the target is the epididymis which is more softer and can be squashed even by a weak girl's hand. Regards, Wendy

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    2. Its ok Wendy, everyone have busy life :). I have maintain my thumbnail at 4mm, i hope my nail is heavy duty can penetrate real testicle shell and won't break during real situation, must practice more on grasp to fix the organ firmly. beside that i try practice my nail push into squash ball more to see my nails can penetrate the squash ball or not, i think the thumb nail can become durable if i practice often.

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  16. he bought two squash ball put into the sock and give me practice full force squeeze.

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    1. Hi, that's a good approach. Full-force squeeze cannot be done on real set of testicles because it can lead to serious injury and rupture, but a substitute would still allow testing it, how in a real attack. Regards, Wendy

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    2. Ya i can't go full force to a testicle owner who love me even he's willing to let me practice, i can imagine even half my strength i can sure he will suffer and that make me worry.

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    3. Yes, you have to be careful with a dude and respect the boundaries. But practice is good even if it causes some discomfort. Wendy

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  17. Hello Wendy 👋🏻 if I attack one ball only is it work? During unwilling blowjob how to adjust the ball in my mouth so I can bite it without it slip away??

    Abby.

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    1. Hi Abby, the grab twist pull and squeeze pinch is my favorite technique.. i often practice this move on my willing BF. every mens have different testicles size some big some small, for me i have sizeable testicle for me to practice and im a small women only have around 41kg and 145cm tall asian.. you can try Wendy lock technique, she has the post. lock and fix one organ testis then use thumb to squeeze the center of it.. squeeze with all your power and imagine you need to crush the organ.. i don't know how big testicle you encounter.. for size of my hand i can only grab one testicle at a time.. target only one organ is enough to cause pain.. i accidentally drop my BF before using uppercut punch technique.. even he's big, tall and strong but i can put him down..

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    2. Hi Abby, Nothing is off limits to stop an unwilling blowjob. Bite hard on the end of his willy and twist and pull his balls at the same time. He will scream with pain, but you must keep going.

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    3. Hi Merry Christmas 🎄🥳, thank you 41kg you are very lucky to have someone to training😢. I'm 46 kg and Im not sure if my hand squeeze strong enough or not. So I secretly probe his ball using mouth and can only put one ball in at a time.
      And thank you Reg merry Christmas 🎄☺️
      Wendy, are you busy?? Anyway merry Christmas to you and happy holiday. I didn't reveal my intention to my bf. I plan to crush his ball and breakup with him if he force again.

      Abby

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    4. Happy Christmas to you too Abby! Believe me, your hand is strong enough. I had a lady friend once who used to practice the pinch technique on me. She only ever took hold of one ball and used to curl her fingers around it then pinch the "strings" at the top between her fingernails and thumb.

      Although she did it quite gently, it was instant agony and I was completely at her mercy. She was thrilled at how easy it was to bring a male to his knees and she never saw men as a threat again once She had the technique perfected.

      She always asked permission before doing it to me and she never did it hard enough to cause damage but it was still quite scary.

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    5. If you do crush his testicle, be sure to tell us all about it.

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    6. Hi Reg, I also wish you a nice rest of the season. The pinch technique is indeed effective and when we did it on Bob and Peter even very gently the reaction was immediate. The tissue there is very innervated and completely unprotected. I can only imagine what the outcome would be if we performed it in full. The downside is that it requires good knowledge of male anatomy and correct execution and precision. This can be gained only by practice and practice... Regards, Wendy

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    7. Hi Abby, at first sorry for not responding earlier I was very busy, I wish you the best holiday season. Yes, it works on one testicle even better than on two because the pull can do some internal damage such as tearing the cords. Generally, we do not have hands big enough to gather both testicles even though there is a risk of slipping them from the grasp. A regular woman's hand can put a testicle in a very tight lock and the testicle has nowhere to go :) especially if the scrotum is loose. So do not worry one testicle is even better. Be careful with practicing, though. It seems many of you are interested in biting testicles. I just had a post about biting the penis, but biting the testicles is a feasible technique as well. If he has a loose scrotum you can suck the testicles inside your mouth and crush it it with your molars. This causes a rupture in no time. Stay tuned for more techniques. Regards, Wendy

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    8. I knew a guy whose testicles were bitten by his alsatian dog. It took him three months to recover and, after he left hospital, he had to sit with his feet up on two separate chairs so as not to crush them. Sleeping was next to impossible. He often got out of bed in the middle of the night and his wife would find him crying in agony on the floor of his bedroom.

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    9. Hi Wendy, it's ok I understand everyone is in Christmas and holiday mood 😊😊 for hand techniques as this blog suggested I try to find a object that nearly similar to man balls in term of softness and size.. It's around 2inch to 1.2inch oval shape will do. So I can try practice it with squeeze and put it inside the mouth then use molars crush it. I need practice more before I can have confidence to protect my self from abusive BF. Hope can see your biting ball technique article soon👀

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    10. Hi Abby, im sure your hand have enough power because for 46kg women should have a litle more muscle strength than 41kg like me.. i can squeeze and cause pain to my boyfriend organ.. few week ago i accidently cause minor injury to his left testis by uppercut and he stop for several minute because of pain.. Yes believe wendy.. target 1 testicle is enough, make sure the organ in fix position before you use full power violently press and squeeze the middle of the fix testicle for as long as you can until hes fall unconscious, never afraid to cause rupture severe injury to him. for mouth techniques the molars is hard i think should be easier, the only problem is wait wendy post on how to fix it securely in between the upper and lower molars so the testicle can't escape and can be chew violently.

      41kg

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    11. Wow! hi wendy.. finally you making the post on how to use molars to crush testicle.. i can't wait to see that and learn from profesional like you wendy ^^

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  18. Hi Reg, I hope can avoid everything is better, he's good in public but after close door when come to sex he love using force type which quite annoying when I'm not in mood. Some more want to blow his dick which I'm still refused because I hate urine smell!! 😠
    But if one day I no longer tolerant his behaviour I will try chew his ball!!

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    1. Good luck Abby - I reckon he needs an introduction to warm soapy water! (failing that, a Brillo pad will do the trick..)

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    2. I wish to see Wendy new post on how to crush ball using molars first before make my move. Now I secretly learn his balls first and plan to target one ball to teach him lesson!!

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