Tuesday 29 December 2020

The low-hanging fruits of female self defense

Low-hanging fruits have various
metaphorical meanings 
Sometime in the middle of our course, Peter and Bob had an important training session for a competition and could not come to our class, so Linda arranged for us a midterm round discussion. It was supposed to be a more informal meeting so we could, in a cozy and relaxed atmosphere, wrap up the past sessions, discuss the challenges of our training and to clarify issues for which there was no room during the regular classes. 

 We already knew Linda owns a small summerhouse in the countryside on the outskirts of our city. The house is small but with a large orchard full of fruit trees. She grows quite some varieties; plum, apple, pear, walnut, cherry trees, but she even managed to successfully cultivate some that are normally not that well suitable for the climate of our country like peaches, apricots and even kiwis! So now you know, where all the fruits used at the course come from. We did not mind, sometimes we left the classes with delicious healthy snacks in our pockets. 

We sat down on mats around Linda, got into the most comfortable positions and she initiated the round discussion with a story. “When the time of harvest comes, I go to my orchard with a basket and start picking the ripe fruits, first those being on the lower branches. These I can conveniently reach from the ground, but to get to those hanging higher up in the tree I must fetch a ladder. The higher the fruits hang the more difficult is to get them. However, those upper fruits receive more sunshine and are bigger and sweeter. There is even a saying in English ‘Do not go for the low hanging fruits.’ “Do you know what the expression ‘low-hanging fruits’ mean?” Linda asked the girl audience. “The most easily and quickly achievable task?” replied Susanne. “Exactly,” nodded Linda. “It is mainly used as business jargon, but for female self defense theory it has an important metaphorical meaning as well. Low-hanging fruits is of course a metaphor for testicles. As you already learned, going for testicles when defending from a man is the easiest and the most straightforward way to go. Furthermore, the lowest the testicles hang the more easily the task is achievable. You already learned some of the testicle-targeting techniques and that most of them are much easier to perform on a man with loose than with a tight scrotum.”

 
Jockstrap was invented in 19th century
to avoid injuries of low-hanging testicles 
Linda then highlighted this issue with a historical inside, “To circumvent this male vulnerability there was even a protective undergarment invented for athletes already in 19th century. A jockstrap is based on a simple principle to lift the male organs closer to his body and keep it all tight and packed to at least partially avoid the possibility of injury. It is effective even if no other hard cup or box is included. But keep in mind, rapists do not wear any protective garments. They are confident they can get away with their intentions. They would anyway have to remove it and expose their genitals at some point of the attack”. 

Linda then switched to biology, “Interestingly, the cremaster muscle does the same thing for a man as a jockstrap during fear, cold, or a sexual intercourse.” “Indeed, a wild sex can be a dangerous activity for testicles,” Linda added humorously. “Our professor of biology at the university used the paradox of testicles hanging outside as an example of an evolutionary trait for which evolutionary biologists are having hard time to find an explanation. She said that the theory about the low temperature sperm production is now disputed by many scientists. It is rather the sperm production being adapted on lower temperatures than other way around. For instance, some mammals do have internal testes. Imagine a dolphin with a flapping scrotum as he jumps out of the water or an elephant with two giant wrecking balls between his legs!” That wild imagination gave us some laughs. Linda then continued, “One theory says it might balance the differences between men and women in terms of physical fighting abilities. It is simply an anatomical weakness of which men must be extremely cautious and careful about. Nevertheless, we do not know yet everything about male sexual physiology and many things remain quite mysterious for science.” 

It was clear that the topic grabbed the girls’ attention and sparked a very intensive debate. Ana said that her boyfriend has low hanging testicles, and she loves it. Before she thought that only older guys have such saggy balls, but her boyfriend is only 22 and according to her, he hangs lower than her granddad! She finds it funny and cute when his ‘bolas’ swing erratically when he walks around the apartment naked. Once he was stealing from her portion of the sweets they received from her grandma, so she flicked him there. “Well, his mistake,” she said. “I got then all the sweets just for me!” Rebeca said that all the guys she dated so far have had rather a tight scrotum. “But I have never cared or thought much about it; I have been more interested in their penises anyway.” Emma reacted immediately to this, “I envy you Rebeca, I have not been that lucky. Too saggy, hairy and wrinkled balls simply gross me out; they also tend to be sweatier and smellier.” Susanne was the medical student at the time and the oldest of us, so she was more interested in the fertility aspect than aesthetics. She said that her boyfriend always gets from her a pack of nice loose shorts for the Valentine’s day so his testicles have enough room and the right temperature for the sperm production. She said she does not like the current trend of tight boxers and briefs; she has to always order her present online because airy shorts are normally difficult to get. She finished with a statement “Those sperm factories simply need a good ventilation!” 

I continued the discussion with my observation that my boyfriend’s testicles react a lot to temperature. I also noticed when they hang low, they are really in danger of various accidents. I told the girls a story when he squished his left testicle between his thigh and a chair during our romantic dinner. “The first moment I thought he screamed because the food was too hot!” Laura added, that once she read a story in a tabloid magazine about a humorous but at the same time serious accident. A man trapped one of his testicles between a toilet seat and bowl. He had to have a surgery done and he had to stay in a hospital for a couple of days, luckily, they saved his ball eventually. The man told the interviewer it was the worst pain imaginable. Tania was the only lesbian in our group and she just nailed this debate with an ironic comment, “Thanks God, I do not have to deal with such oddities!” 

The smile on Linda’s face revealed she is happy that the discussion got nicely initiated, girls lost their shyness and could talk openly about some touchy topics of male physiology so we can get into more serious aspects of female self defense…

P.S.
Now I allowed the anonymous comments again but so far still  moderated. I ask you do not misuse it as it happened week ago. I want to allow open discussion on sensitive subjects. We do not have to agree on everything and you can be critical, but I will not tolerate spamming with just offensive comments and hatred. 

148 comments:

  1. "Once he was stealing from her portion of the sweets they received from her grandma, so she flicked him there. “Well, his mistake,” she said. “I got then all the sweets just for me!”

    Well, he's lucky Ana didn't castrate him right there and then, it would have been justified after all!

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    1. Castration for stealing sweets would be little bit harsh punishment, don't you think? Flicking testicles gives a clear message to a man that stealing is not good and can have some consequences.

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    2. Do you think it is ok then for a woman to pretty much hurt a man's testicles whenever she feels it is justified?

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    3. I guess we would both agree that hurting a rapist testicles would be justified. Seriously hurting testicles of a boyfriend because of some sweets would not be justified. A flick is not hurting the testicles. Do we agree?

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    4. No we don't. You, of all people should be familiar with how sensitive a man's testicles are to pain-this blog would not exist if they were not. Since you reportedly have personal experience kicking/squeezing/rubbing together/pinching/etc. a man's testicles, you are well-aware of this.

      A flick is not hurting the testicles? Says who- you?

      I would think that most rational/reasonable people would not agree that 'flicking' a man's testicles for taking more than his allotted portion of the treats given to his girlfriend by her grandmother is an appropriate or acceptable response. You seem to have a very low threshold for what you define as assault when it is predicated by a man on a woman, and the standard solution is attacking his testicles - even if the 'assault' involves taking more than the allowed number of treats.

      On this blog, almost any male behavior that a woman disagrees with warrants a targeted action against the man's testicles -this is simply the construct you have created for yourself that you promote other women to adopt.

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    5. And yes, hurting a rapist's testicles is as well-established and effective strategy for a very serious and horrific event, and few men (other than the rapist) have a problem with women doing that.

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    6. Do you think it would be ok for my boyfriend to flick my nipples or clit if the situation was reversed and I was the one that took extra treats given to him? Not to say I would enjoy that, because I would not!

      Fair is fair I think.

      Claire
      USA

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    7. The boy was stealing and that's not moral.
      You just look at the 'immorality' of a testicle flip as a response. That's what you are only interested, the testicular safety:) That's typical you. I will not now evaluate her response. He did not die. He did not sustain any injury. He lost his portion of treats, thou :) He was simply doing wrong thing and Ana responded how she responded. The lesson he learned is good for him. Better then some kind words and preaching 'do not steal my treats' it is no, no. If somebody flicked my breast or clit because I was stealing? Unlikely event (because I do not steal), but if happened, would I like it? The same as Clair, of course I wouldn't. Nobody likes corporal punishments even if mild. But I would not go to online forums and cry and write million of comments how unfair and wrong it was. Psychological punishments can be often more painful. Your Wendy

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  2. Hi Wendy,
    Me and my girlfriends read your blog from time to time, and we notice that you always talk about castration techniques, but never about how to do what they call a penectomy on the guy. Wouldn't it be a more effective self-defense technique to do that after the castration, just to make sure the attacker cannot continue with the his attack? He probably would already be unconscious anyway, so he wouldn't really feel it until (and if) he came to?

    Can you please talk about this?

    Thanks,
    Claire, Ohio, USA

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    1. Dear Claire,
      Good that you and your friends read this blog. You can learn a lot of useful things. The purpose of the techniques I describe is not to castrate a man per se, but to incapacitate an attacker so you can make your escape safely. Doing penectomy would be an unnecessary and an excessive action after you already subdued him. Also you don't want to contaminate yourself with his blood, right? However, there is one technique which I will describe here aimed at an erected penis of an attacker to cause what is called a penile fracture. Very effective to prevent rape. Stay tuned.
      My best wishes to the great state of Ohio
      Wendy

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    2. Well, that is surprising since castration certainly seems to be your preferred outcome in most of the techniques you talk about. From reading this blog, I do not see much that you consider excessive at all. Mostly, anything goes...You seem to infer or indirectly suggest some really serious actions, without considering if it is actually necessary.

      Claire

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    3. Are there times when you would recommend a penectomy as well though?

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    4. What about revenge though? Isn't that a justifiable reason? That Linda says a women should keep crushing a man's testicles for ten seconds after he is already passed out-that certainly sounds like revenge/viciousness to me. Why is penectomy any different?

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    5. Hi Claire,
      I think you than misunderstood my posts. No, castration is not the preferred outcome. The preferred outcome is to be able to fight back effectively in a serious situation and to get out safely. When you are being raped with a possible outcome to be also murdered, would you consider the nutcracker technique excessive? Do you care more about the rapist testicles or the woman's life? If I wrote here if you have a gun shoot the man wanting to murder you there would not be that much controversy at all. This is a clear hypocrisy. Men simply consider their testicles sacred and untouchable.
      Your Wendy

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    6. """What about revenge though?...."""
      No Linda did not recommend squeezing 10 seconds after he passes out for a revenge. This is for security he is not going to wake up and to go after you in a great rage. You have to be simply sure he is out before you make your escape (which can take some time). I know it might sound vicious and ruthless but that's how it is when you are fighting for your life.
      Your Wendy

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    7. I would not recommend penectomy for self defense for several reasons. Attacking the rapist testicles would do the job and you do not need to carry a knife and to risk infection from the attackers blood.

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    8. I would think that men care about their body parts -including their testicles as we women care about ours - including our breasts and other parts. I don't know what you mean by your claim that men consider their testicles sacred and untouchable. I would think that they matter a lot to most men, as my breasts and vagina matter a lot to me and most other women. 'Untouchable' ? I would doubt that most men think that if they were to actually sexually assault a woman - I don't mean touching a woman's butt as you define sexual assault, but obvious violent sexual assault such as that which precedes and involves rape. I am sure that in those situations, men would expect that a woman would use the male vulnerability of testicles as a key self-defense strategy, as is the obvious and near exclusive focus of this blog. I don't think that a man that is not assaulting or threatening a woman with an assault should expect to have his testicles touched or assaulted, why should he?

      The right to bodily autonomy extends to both genders, whether you agree with it or not. Your statement regarding men believing that their testicles are 'sacred and untouchable' doesn't make much sense at all. Do you not believe that your eyesight is 'sacred and untouchable' or that any other part of your body qualifies as being so? From a respect and right to bodily autonomy it makes sense for both men and women. No reasonable person would say that these rights apply no matter what - you certainly don't. If I was to go into a local bar here and kick a man in the balls for the hell of it, I am confident that I would have surrendered my right to the autonomy of my body relating to that interaction. Similarly if a man would assault a woman.

      And yes, a lot of what you talk about and explain in this blog is vicious indeed.

      Claire
      USA

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    9. You're no longer 'fighting for your life' if the attacker is unconscious... You have the opportunity to get away THEN. Any further action, such as what Linda clearly suggested is indeed for the purpose of revenge, and it's intent is to cause permanent and disabling injuries. Spin it how you wish - you always do.

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    10. Dear Clair,
      Again I think we still do not understand each other. There are plenty of YouTube videos how to use a firearm. In the USA you are allowed to kill a trespasser of your property using a gun. I have never seen so much rage in the comment sections of these videos as you can see here. Nobody is asking the posters to be clear about the appropriate response, or not to be too vicious towards your attacker and so on. Why is a gun-inflicted wound less painful or less horrible than a ruptured testicle? Yes testicles are simply sacred and taboo. You admit testicle-attacks are effective and appropriate in some instances, but you do not want me to talk/write about it.
      You are asserting your idea that female readers can be turn to vicious testicle-injury-craving beings because of my blog. And everything on our mind would be to castrate men. Period, you can spin it as you wish.

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    11. """You're no longer 'fighting for your life' if the attacker is unconscious..."""
      It is so easy for you men to moralize, right? I would like to see you being raped in your ass by some big guy and everything on your mind would be to respond properly and with the least harm possible to your attacker and not a single, smallest stain of revenge. You fight for your life, you need to be sure he is completely out. Period, you can spin it as you wish.

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    12. "You admit testicle-attacks are effective and appropriate in some instances, but you do not want me to talk/write about it."

      Let's see if you have the mental capacity to take in what I am about to say..

      The techniques you describe CAN and MAY be justified and warranted in some situations. Repeat this statement back to yourself five times to help transition it from working memory into long-term memory...

      You CAN (obviously) talk about them all you like. NODOBY -including me, is trying to tell you not to. What you comfortably avoid - and you explicitly state this in this blog, is discussing when these techniques WOULD be warranted -other than in vague terms. You are clear to say you take no responsibility whatsoever for the use of the techniques you describe-that is freedom without responsibility. I have no illusions you will do this, or ever change the thrust of this blog. It is all about what can be done IF the woman things its justified. That's a lot easier than discussing when they SHOULD be considered.

      Your sadistic nature is likely a heavy influence in the types of techniques you discuss here. This blog is very different in tone and content than most women's self-defense blogs. Small wonder it is on the periphery and exists in the shadows.

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    13. I do worry it is you who goes in circles and is contradicting himself in a single comment. No you do not wish me to freely talk about some brutal techniques, because: "Your sadistic nature is likely a heavy influence in the types of techniques you discuss here..." So you implicate if I wasn't a sadist I would not write about those techniques and this blog would not exist. In my absolutely 1st post I wrote: 'Many techniques I will describe here are brutal and should be used only when necessary to prevent rape not if you are just upset or as form of revenge on a cheating boyfriend' you can check it by yourself.
      I will not write Ladies you should not kick testicles of somebody who grabbed your butt. Why? Because if somebody grabs your butt in a bar full of people it is a different situation than if a mean-looking stranger suddenly comes from bushes in a dark secluded park with nobody around and grabs your butt. I leave these decision on the reader's good judgment. Lets hope you have the mental capacity to understand what I wrote here.

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  3. A man trapped one of his testicles between a toilet seat and bowl. He had to have a surgery done and he had to stay in a hospital for a couple of days, luckily, they saved his ball eventually. The man told the interviewer it was the worst pain imaginable.

    OUCH!!!!!!!!!!!

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    1. Even I cringed when I listened to this story. Men should be really careful with their packages.

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    2. You cringed? I thought you would find it really funny?

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    3. Who cares about men?

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    4. You do not find it at leeeeaaast little bit humorous? :)
      I do care about men, they are so vulnerable beings with those highly sensitive dangling bits between their legs. I do care about their mental wellbeing as well, and especially those commenting here. Men do need our love and our protection. We need them on this planet! It would be so sad without them. :)

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    5. I'm pretty sure they don't need women's protection Wendy. It appears that you would truly relish a world of women only- but that isn't a surprise based on the tome of many of your posts. Misandry abounds...

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    6. Of course it is hilarious! Any time a man experiences sever pain should bring tears of laughter to all women Wendy, you KNOW that...

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    7. Not really Wendy. All us women could just become lesbians, visit the local sex shops, or better yet, open our own manufacturing facilities and design and produce an almost unlimited range of sex toys, without size restrictions! We would all live in peace, be equal, with equal opportunities and access to any and all resources we need.

      Sounds like heaven, don't you agree?

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    8. Now WHO would ever accuse you of sarcasm? Only men I suspect...

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    9. """I'm pretty sure they don't need women's protection Wendy..."""
      Well, based on the comments here I think they do. They are such delicate creatures. So easily hurt, both their ego and their testicles... :)

      """Of course it is hilarious! Any time a man experiences sever pain should bring tears of laughter to all women Wendy, you KNOW that..."""

      You should tell this to all male Hollywood producers/directors/screenwriters why they always insert a testicle attacks (sometimes really not justified) as a funny element in almost every movie. Do you think Hollywood is dominated by women?

      """Not really Wendy. All us women could just become lesbians,..."""

      No, that would be sad. Kicking just silicone testicles is not as much fun as kicking the real things. :) :) :)

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  4. Say Wendy, don't you think women should be able to require their boyfriends to stretch their balls so they are easier to attack using one of your techniques? It just seems fair that women should have this as a right.

    Diana

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    1. Dear Diana,
      There is plenty of effective techniques to use even if an attacker's scrotum is tight. As you can read in my post, some women do not like saggy balls so those would not be happy at all with this approach I guess :-)
      Wendy

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    2. Men should have to do whatever the woman wants, don't you think?

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    3. Good and obedient men do :) Most unfortunately don't :(

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    4. Sounds pretty controlling to me...completely in character though..

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    5. Sounds like you're a very controlling person Wendy.

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    6. """Sounds like you're a very controlling person Wendy.""""
      Maybe I am, but I am confused. Is it a good or bad characteristic?
      Somebody simply has to take the control... :)

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    7. Perhaps in the Wendy-world you live in. Most countries have evolved beyond your level of thinking and believe that people should be equal in their relationships. Judging from the character of many of your posts, such as those relating to how the advertisement for the volunteers for your women's self-defense course, it certainly seems that you're much more embedded in a matriarchal version of what most more informed people are trying to move away from. And not Wendy, being controlling isn't a positive character
      trait- outside of Wendy-world anyway.

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    8. Matriarchal societies were actually quite successful in the history of mankind. Why a matriarchal relationship should be always wrong?

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  5. personally I prefer to have tight panties,
    because he doesn't like dangling testicles. especially in summer :-)
    happy New Year

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    1. Whatever he/she prefers! :-)
      Happy New Year

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  6. Hi, Wendy.

    I would like to begin by saying that I am sorry for the problems caused by certain individuals and their comments. And from here I encourage everyone to always maintain respect and the free circulation of ideas.

    That said, I would like to congratulate you on your blog and your work. Your tickets are incredible. And they are a real pleasure to read. As much for your correct use of language, as for the anecdotes and the technical and tactical analysis. Of the best that I have read on these subjects in the network.

    I find the example of certain animals with scrotum very funny - such as the dolphin and the elephant. And it reminded me of an anecdote I had with a friend about snakes. How lucky they are to not have to wear a scrotum - because of their body and dragging motion. We even think that if it had it, it could have it in the upper part of the body. But this could be counterproductive to your survival. A bird could grab it from above by the scrotum, and it would be its end.

    I agree that a larger scrotum is a more vulnerable focal point. It assumes a greater impact zone. In addition to being easier to grip. Even a hindrance to its wearer as you mentioned before - being able to damage herself with a movement and if she does not wear a jockstrap.

    I confess that I usually wear boxers. And that tight clothing makes me extremely uncomfortable. Also, by the width of my thighs, where my overweight is centered, my scrotum tends to be in the front of my thighs, rather than between my legs. So the tightest clothing, even the tightest boxers - more appropriate to avoid wrinkles in tight pants - tend to be annoying and limiting. I even notice that my penis, flaccid, is even more reduced when wearing tight boxers.

    It is also curious that having larger testicles causes such facilities. When larger testicles have certain advantages: more testicles for muscle mass and bone, as well as for aggressiveness in combat. But at the same time it offers the aforementioned disadvantages. It's like it's a kind of balance.

    I liked the detail about the assailant. That they don't wear jockstraps. And that if they did, they would have to remove it in order to act. Leaving his manhood vulnerable and accessible. Like the open door of a castle.

    Finally I would like to add a piece of information regarding animals and which I have just remembered now as I was writing. I remember several videos where lionesses or hyenas took advantage of the hanging of the buffalo's testicles, to attack them there. Biting while they are distracted by other attackers. Or attacking from behind, by surprise. It is like a button that turns off all male resistance.

    What was said. A pleasure to always read you. A cordial greeting. And very happy holidays !!

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  7. Dear Vil,
    Thanks a lot for your nice comment. I wish the other commenters were wise as you. These are very interesting observations from Nature you mentioned. I also read once that there are documented instances when lionesses attack lion's testicles when they are not satisfied with the mating frequencies. :)
    The paradox of bigger testicles - more aggression and body mass but at the same time also higher vulnerability is also an interesting observation. Again thank you so much for your insights. I wish you a Happy New Year!

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  8. Hi wendy,
    thank you for this blog it is so interesting.
    i am wandering if these jockstrap could really protect the testicles? what men were thinking when they put these jockstrap? lol
    i mean even at this point of time with all the technology the best thing they came up with is a CUP!! that only limit the impact.
    It is funny how men worry about the testicles to the point that they wear these JOCKSTRAP LOL

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    1. Hi, thanks for your comment. That's actually a good question. I can imagine putting a hard cup or a box inside provides quite some protection against direct hits. A jockstrap alone should mainly prevent tangling of testicles and straining of the cremaster. I looked on internet and I haven't found any information how effective the jockstraps truly are. It would be interesting to see if any research has ever done on this subject.
      Nevertheless, I am convinced It would have no effect against a well placed knee strike. :)

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    2. I am so sure that you are one of the best that could do such a research.
      Best wishes

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  9. Hello Wendy,
    You will be happy to know that I've made the decision to no longer visit and post comments on your blog. In all seriousness, I want to say that I am deeply saddened that we live in a world where women are physically abused and sexually assaulted by men. It is horrific, and women have every right to defend themselves, and to take action up to and including taking the life of the attacker where such desperate action is necessary in the circumstances. Men have a lot to answer for, and they need to change how they treat women. I also acknowledge that the techniques you discuss on this blog have a legitimate place in women's self-defense, despite of how uncomfortable I am with reading about them. You most certainly have the right to discuss them; it matters not what others think about it, including me.

    As a man that has had his life profoundly and permanently affected by suffering the most egregious of injuries of which you speak, due to the actions of a woman that kicked an innocent man in error, it has been quite difficult for me to read the enthusiasm with which some of what is presented on this blog is received. Life is unfair, as we both well know. I hope the world becomes a more equitable, less violent and more caring place, but it seems unlikely to happen any time soon.

    I will keep my word, leave you in peace, and take my leave from your blog.

    Troy Bannon

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    1. Dear Troy,

      Thank you for coming and commenting here.
      I respect your opinion although our views are sometimes different.
      To be honest I was not expecting so much controversy when I started this blog. You would not like to see the comments I have to filter now. I am truly sorry what happened in your life.

      I also had a bad experience in my life with men. As I wrote in my first post I thwarted a rape attempt before taking the self defense course. I managed to escape but what if not... I have not talked about it here much because it just brings me some bad memories. As you said life is not fair sometimes. You are a good man and you did not deserve what happened to you. Also you should have not discovered my blog, it is not intended for you. You can always contact me using a contact form at
      femaleselfdefense.sport.blog

      My best wishes
      And peace in your heart,

      Your Wendy

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  10. Hi Wendy,
    Do you think wearing these jockstrap could protect my testicles? should i consider buying a jockstrap to overcome the vulnerability of my testicles?

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    1. Hi. Well it depends. If your testicles hang low it is a good protection during most sports. For martial arts or self defense training you should get a cup or a box. A jockstrap does not help much in this situation. You don't want to end up like this guy:
      https://twitter.com/SandhuMMA/status/1304607063679676419?s=20
      It is even more horrible to listen to it than to watch.
      I read some comments of men saying that tight briefs or boxers do the same thing so for a normal daily activities so you do not need to buy it to have your testicles safe. And if you do not intend to attack a woman of course:)

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    2. That guy is actually wearing a cup! I don't know why he went down crying though. how could it have hurt his testicles so badly with protection/

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  11. Sounds a lot like this anonymous poster is a woman. Most males old enough to ask such a question would already know the answer to it. Further, men should not be getting advice like this from a woman, let alone a blog like this where preventing injuries to a man's testicles is the polar opposite to pretty much everything that appears on this site...

    Evan G.

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    1. Hi Evan. Not necessary. There are many gynecologists, who are men and advice woman even on 'should already known' things. To me men are conscious about vulnerability of their testicles, yet they maybe feel ashamed to wear any protection or even to ask for an which one would be the best for a particular situation. I already pasted a link for a study on testicle injuries; it is staggering how little these protections are worn during sports and how many unnecessary injuries could be avoided. The link above from a MMA match is a good example. Some call me a sadist on this blog but I do not want good men's testicles to be injured. These are precious delicate little things essential for the human race :)

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  12. Men who participate in martial arts or contact sports don't often feel 'ashamed' to wear groin protection, and again, this is a very strange place - to put it mildly, for a male to look for information like this. I have only read some of the comments on this blog, but from what I've seen so far, this is about the past place I would suggest any man to come for useful advice...

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    1. Well, I would stress the word 'often' because apparently not always. The MMA fighter in the link I pasted above did not wear any. Why it is like that is beyond my comprehension. Is it for a purpose that we can watch, from time to time, such strong fighters rolling on the floor and moaning in great pain? I am not an expert in MMA so maybe you can enlighten me in this. Sometimes it is difficult to see in men's heads. Last resort self defense is not gender-exclusive; men can learn a lot of useful things on this blog, trust me, and especially things they would possibly never hear in a normal male-oriented self defense class.

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  13. What can men learn from your blog? I read some more of it, and it looks like your goal in life is to teach women the best ways to castrate men. I see why you say that some have called you a sadist- it isn't a big leap to draw that conclusion. You say your blog is not gender-exclusive - really? The title of it - 'Last resort self-defense for women' suggest otherwise, and the content is entirely focused on pretty much one thing.

    Evan G.

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    1. Dear Evan, yes my blog is primarily for women but men can be raped too. If you would like to learn judo or karate or systema then no, this blog is not for you. I haven't heard any story of a woman defending herself from a rapist using a judo throw. Maybe in some bad movies. However, I do know about many instances when attaching attacker's testicles helped. Recently I got an email from a woman who got out from a sticky situation using a knee to the testicles. Communicating this, means you immediately get labelled a sadist. OK I am not so easily offended.
      There is, however, also other reason why men should read this blog. To learn women can defend themselves effectively and to be aware they might deeply regret their attempts to assault a woman.

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    2. Estoy de acuerdo contigo en todo el comentario,sigue así!..buen blog..y todo lo que sea defenderse está justificado.

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    3. Muchas gracias por tu apoyo Adrian. Me alegra que te guste mi blog :) Wendy

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  14. I somehow doubt that men that are intent on raping a woman are likely to visit your blog. I've no idea how you came to the conclusion that I am interested in learning a martial art. Obviously, this isn't where I would look if I did. I also doubt that whomever suggested you are a sadist came to that conclusion based on suggesting a woman knees a man in the groin as a self-defense tactic alone.

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    1. So than what interest did land you on my blog? What makes you conclude or at least agree with the statement that communicating effective techniques of female self defense (and not being shy to include testicles) makes you a sadist?

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  15. The definition of rape is evolving in many countries, moving much more towards the concept of sexual activity without clear consent. You say that men are raped - and that is true. They can also be raped by a woman, and as a more purposeful definition of rape is enshrined in law, you could certainly expect to see more women charged with rape. Given the obvious anatomical differences between men and women as they can be used in self-defense, men will need to develop equally debilitating self-defense strategies as those you talk about here to use against women. Since female sexual anatomy does not offer equal opportunities in this area, perhaps techniques that provide for a high likelihood of the cessation of life or permanent functional disability (perhaps attacks that result in severe neurological injuries and/or motor-function impairment) should be aggressively explored. I see no reason at all why a man should not have the right to take as vicious and brutal an action towards a female perpetrator as what you talk about here against men.

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    1. Fine, go ahead. Write such a blog and send me the link.

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  16. Since almost every female self-defense website/blog/post/etc. strongly encourages women to be 'fast, brutal, and vicious' in their actions, and that no matter what happens to the attacker, it is always the attacker's fault, it is very reasonable and justifiable that men take the same approach. Mercy is for the weak. Men should be able to kill the female attacker, and feel no responsibility at all.

    Evan G.

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    1. Why do you think men are not allowed to kill a woman attacker when are they in a s danger of loss of life or a serious bodily harm? I haven't heard about any such a law.

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  17. I read a post some guy wrote here about the pussy pass. That guy was right - it is common for women to expect they can say and do what they like without consequence, because they are female. I strongly suspect that Emily Rand in that story I posted about thought she could hit that guy and not get hit back. Surprise, surprise..

    Evan G.

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    1. My blog is about self defense not the pussy pass. If you demand the penis pass fine, I am not against.

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  18. The tone of many of your comments is quite sarcastic - like the one above in response to my post - 'These are precious delicate little things essential for the human race :)' The entire focus of your blog is on ways to mutilate men's bodies, so anytime you suggest anything otherwise should be read with a great deal of skepticism.

    Evan G.

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    1. So the testicles are an expendable balls of iron of immense resilience? What firearms do when use them for self defense? They rejuvenate the attacker's bodies?

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    2. I appreciate that English is not your native language, however I am unclear as to what you are trying to convey here... Are testicles immune from injury? Do I really need to answer such a query coming from you? The rest of your narrative is muddled, sorry...

      Evan G.

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    3. No Evan, you do understand what I want to say here. Why does it bother you so much a rapist's testicles get hurt but not a traumatic injury from a bullet? If I was describing here ways to shoot an attacker, you wouldn't bother to angrily comment on this blog. Injuring an attacker is mutilation? Simply in your view testicles are special and should be taboo and I am a sadist even though I advocate for wearing a groin protection. Admit it Evans.

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    4. Responding to a single post from who knows who's rather odd query about whether they should where a jock strap/groin protector, in comparison to the entire content of this blog hardly presents a compelling argument that you are concerned about physical injury to a man's testicles, don't be ridiculous. Suggesting otherwise would be analogous to someone who regularly abuses animals, but makes a big deal about mentioning once to someone that they should make sure their pet gets fed regularly...

      You don't limit the application of your favorite methods to actual attempted rape. You in fact explicitly state that it is not up to you to explain what circumstances would justify castration, and that you take no responsibility for what women do with the information you provide in this blog. Doing what you suggest - and I would bet would very much like the opportunity to do yourself to a man IS mutilation, whether you choose to acknowledge it or not. To most men, their testicles are 'special' to them; I would think breasts and clitorises are considered special to most women. Organs that uniquely define a person's physical/sexual identity are often given that label ('special').

      From what I have read on this blog so far, it certainly seems to me that your fervor for castration has a very 'special' place in your personal make-up. It would not surprise me if you don't wish you have the chance to do that to a man in your life, just for the joy it will bring you...

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  19. Hopefully some guys that have been on here will create a blog exclusively for teaching men the most effective methods for maiming/killing a woman that touches them without permission, attacks them, or the man 'feels threatened', such that they must defend themselves by maiming/killing the female predator.

    Sounds very reasonable to me, don't you agree?

    Evan G.

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    1. Go ahead Evan and don't forget to send me the link.

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    2. Why would I bother sending you the link? The only voice you listen to is your own...

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    3. Which voices do you listen to Evan?

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  20. Hi Wendy,

    Quick question, I've recently started doing martial arts and although very new, will begin sparring with others shortly who are much more experienced. I'm quite shy and I usually find it embarrassing to talk about things like groin strikes and protective cups, anyway, my point is, do you have any advice on how to keep my uhhh... man parts safe during sparring? I don't know if you've got more ideas on how to hurt those dangley bits than to protect them but any advice would be appreciated :)

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    1. Hi James,
      Thank you for your question. There is no shame in taking care about safety of your testicles. Not only you but also your better half will for sure at some point appreciate it. The true is I am more trained in methods of attacking testicles than in means to protect them :)
      However, I did learned something about it during my self defense class.

      First advice is always wear a hard cap-type groin protector. Never trust an advice you don't need it or that it is pansy to wear it. You don't want to end up like the MMA fighter in the video I posted before. That will be more embarrassing. Blows to testicles simply happen even when banned or not directly trained.

      A jockstrap alone is not enough for martial arts. Spare some bucks to buy a high quality protector. Here are listed some good ones: https://www.attacktheback.com/best-cup-mma-bjj-2017/

      Be sure you have the right size, fitting the size of your genitalia. Regularly check the cap for any cracks that may appear after some time. This might weaken the protective ability. If this happens buy a new one.
      Peter and Bob wore a hard cap when we wanted to go full force and full speed. Bob showed me once I actually cracked his cap after a particularly strong knee and he also felt it.

      Last advice for sparing. We also learned that men protect their testicles by slightly turning their bodies and putting one leg forward to prevent direct hits. You can make this stand in some situations, but of course this is not always possible.
      Hope this advice helps, stay (you and your testicles:) safe.
      Wendy

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    2. Hi Wendy,

      Thank you so much for the advice, it really was quite helpful. Unfortunately I think the cup I used was a size too small, which led to a rather agonizing encounter, however, without using everything you suggested I think I could have very well ended up like the poor poor MMA fighter in the video you posted.

      Thanks again :)

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  21. Well, now WHO would possibly suspect that this timely 'anonymous' post may have been authored by Wendy herself, with the intention of shifting her image from being solely one who focuses on techniques to castrate men to one who is genuinely concerned about men protecting their testicles...

    Only the truly naïve would suspect otherwise...

    Evan G.

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    1. Evan, Evan, Evan why do you all the time want to image me as a testicle destroyer and not a testicle protector? :)
      BTW, no I swear the post was not from me. Maybe some men feel I am not ashamed to speak about vulnerability of testicles so they seek advice here rather from somebody who would maybe feel embarrassed talking about this topic. I admit I am not an expert but I do have some experience from our self defense classes.

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    2. Trying to placate your sadistic nature perhaps???

      Evan G.

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    3. You seem to think that knowledge of the physical vulnerability of male testicles is somehow specialist knowledge, rather than information that is readily available in a few minutes through a Google search. As has been well-established, you are knowledgeable about how to injure/maim a man's testicles-period. Good for you. Doubtless women will beat a path to your door (of your blog) to educate themselves about the most effective methods to use. Congratulations on the profound contribution to society that you have made. Best to stay within you limited area of expertise, rather than present yourself as having knowledge of other topics that is highly suspect by anyone capable of critical thought..

      Evan G.

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    4. Because you're a sadist Wendy.. does that clear this question up for you??

      Evan G.

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    5. You have a rather large credibility gap when talking about anything that is in the interest of men, other than those that are considering rape, and I rather doubt that cohort of the population is visiting your blog...

      Evan G.

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    6. Evan, you seem so triggered again. Cool down man. I respect you (and your testicles), yet you hate me so much. Why is like that? You don't like when I talk about attacking testicles, you don't like when I talk about protecting testicles. What do you want from me Evan?

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    7. I couldn't care less if you talk about attacking testicles -I'm not your mother, thank God. I care about your stunning lack of credibility/honesty when you present yourself as actually caring about a man's ability to protect his balls from injury, which, other than not assaulting women - which you comfortably don't qualify as what would cross your rather fluid threshold where anything goes in self-defense, you know next to zero about.

      You should stick to what you think about most - how to castrate men. This is the reason you exist it seems.

      Evan G.

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    8. You're just an very troubling aberration of sorts, that's all...o;)

      Say Wendy, I was told that you really care about men- I mean, in addition to learning new ways to mutilate them of course, you REALLY do care about their actual well-being, is that true? After all, some may draw the conclusion after reading this blog that all you want to do is subjugate men, castrate them, and kill some of them, but that can't be true can it? :o)
      LOL

      Evan G.

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    9. I'm not looking for your respect. You're a keyboard warrior with sadistic tendencies, nothing more.

      Evan G.

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    10. You need to experience some of the blows you inflicted on the two guys in that class you never shut up about talking about. Full force of course. Perhaps a good cunt punt to start, then a full force strike to the windpipe. That should slow you down just enough for him to break your nose, and gouge your eyes out..
      :o)

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    11. You are such a naughty boy Evan. Now, who is a sadist here. No I will never experience the blows I learned and trained in my self defense class, which I will continue to talk about by the way. The reason is I do not have testicles that's it. :)

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    12. True, but you have a throat (Bob and Peter were struck there, and by you so you say), and eyes. You would have a MUCH better appreciation of the techniques you promote if you experienced receiving them.

      After all, a few hard blows to your trachea would do you a world of good Wendy...

      :)

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    13. Evan, I am not an attacker and I do not serve as a training assistant in a self defense class. Bob and Peter did, and got struck there. They also got paid. I am sorry, that's how it is. You also do not shoot yourself with a gun to see how painful it is.

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  22. LOL -Um.. It MIGHT be because that's what you are...Further, you are neither in the anatomical nor experiential position to make credible recommendations as to what types of groin protectors men should consider when considering becoming involved in martial arts. Only a young an naïve male would ever ask questions here regarding recommendations about groin protectors. Kind of like asking the wolf how to best protect the henhouse, don't expect a credible response from the wolf...

    Evan G.

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    1. Actually you seem to be the young, inexperienced and naïve here. Who else than the wolf would know better how to protect the henhouse? :)

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  23. Since you seem incapable of grasping anything more than the most simplistic concepts, allow me to explain this in the context of the discussion at hand. Wolves have a rather strong self-interest in henhouses that are not well protected - I will presume you can process that notion. You, as one who appears to spend a good deal of time and mental energy devising progressively more effective methods of castrating men, would likely have little interest in telling men how they can better protect those organs. Any male reading this blog would be out of their mind to trust anything you had to say about how men can protect themselves from women.

    And no, I'm not young, inexperienced or perhaps most significantly, naïve...

    Evan G.

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    1. Evan, I would not mind if your are young, inexperienced or naïve. But you are just extremely annoying, self-righteous and arrogant. I am sorry I have to say it.

      Who else knows more about the vulnerability of the henhouse than the one who uses those vulnerabilities? Wolf of course. So he has both the knowledge to explore those to his benefits as well as how to protect it. Of course you have to make that wolf to speak...

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  24. Hi Wendy,
    I am a man and i really appreciate your blog. You are a very knowldgable woman and you are covering a subject that most men don't feel comfortable to talk about ( the vulnerability of men and testicles ) which most men know about it but don't want to admit it especially in front of women because as men we want to be the superior sex or at least that is how the culture usually imaging men.
    I have to admit that i am most of the time thinking that way, some thing inside me try to refuse the vulnerability of my testicles and i feel really embarrassed to talk about it. i remember one time me and some friends(girls) we were watching a movie that i have watched before and i know that movie has a testicles kick scene, so before that scene i went to the restroom to avoid watching that scene in front of them and avoid that embarrassment.
    Now i am trying to overcome that feeling and your blog is really helping me especially knowing that i can post anonymously.

    Thanks Wendy.
    Wade ( Fake name )

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    1. Dear Wade,
      Thank you so much for your comment. There should be no shame, your bodies are simply made like that and testicles although so vulnerable are an irreplaceable organ for our procreation. I am really sorry for that cinema story. We often went to the cinema with the whole high school class and I also noticed how boys felt uncomfortable and cringed during those scenes when men get hit in the testicles. We girls just chuckled, for us it was rather fun. Over time I have realized how embarrassing it can be for boys. In one of the older posts with one woman we also discussed so called transmitted pain when a man is seeing such a scene. And in the past there was such a scene in almost any action movie or a comedy. Wade, feel free to comment about anything. I have to moderate the comments again as there are some annoying weirdos trying to spam with hate and offensive language. Take care,
      Your Wendy

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    2. Well, your readers will never know how 'hateful' and 'offensive' any of those posts were, obviously. Just like your own posts, what is hateful and offensive is most often in the eyes of the beholder. It isn't a big stretch to conclude that you just don't allow posts that conflict with your opinions. After all, most everyone else filters posts on their personal blogs, so it probably isn't realistic to expect that it would not happen here, particularly given the subject matter.

      Horace Sprout (just a little fake name - surprise!)

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    3. Dear Horace Sprout, (I like this name, better than Kim and friends or Evan)
      This blog is an open forum for people of different opinions. And you find such comments all over the place here. What you do is to spam with things I cannot allow to be posted. If you have some personal issue with me fine. But do not prevent other people from freely commenting. And please find another hobby for instance start writing your own blog. You are a big boy.
      Your Wendy

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    4. I just found your post about the transmitted pain and i can tell you that is so true, i thought i am the only one who feel this kind of pain ( it is not actual pain i don't know how to explain, it is more like a discomfort that make me cringe) i thought i had a problem in my testicles.
      I just have a couple questions, why do you think this happen when we watch someone getting kicked in the testicles?
      is there any way to overcome that kind of feeling?
      Regarding those annoying weirdos i don't know why acting like this i try to ignore them but sometimes they make me hesitant.

      Regards
      Wade

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    5. In fact, you only see the spectrum of comments you allow...not hard to make yourself look like most people agree with you doing that - it's hardly rocket science...

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    6. Dear Wade,
      Thanks for your insight. Well, I do not have testicles so for me it is an unknown feeling. I just see how guys react in that situation. My theory is that it is some kind of warning, you are in a dangerous situation, be careful. I saw in one movie monks can make their testicles insensitive by simply 'toughen' them over time with kicks. Here, maybe some mental training (e.g. regular watching such movies :) would help. I do not know if there is any research in this area, although quite interesting topic.

      Thanks for your support Wade
      Wendy

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  25. Dear Wendy,
    I read on the internet that this blog is the place for young guys like me to come for really caring and credible information on how I should protect my genitals from injury. Someone said that this blog is all about castration and other things women should do to men, but a woman said that this isn't true, and that the person that runs this blog (you) is not a sadistic nutcase that some men accuse you of being. I want to make sure that before I share my questions with you that I can trust that you have my genuine best interests at heart.

    Thank you so much Wendy,
    Trevor Canter

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    1. Dear Trevor,
      No I am not a sadistic nutcase for sure. And this blog is not about castration but female self defense. I do care about men's testicles, but not those of rapists. So feel free and hit me with your questions. I'll try to answer to my best knowledge and your best interests.
      Your Wendy

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    2. You’re not a sadistic nutcase? Can you provide any evidence that supports that claim, because your comments on this blog are rather supportive of that assertion…

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    3. Can you prove you are not a nutcase Evan? Your comments here show otherwise.

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  26. We know this Wendy. We were just chatting in our group the other day, and decided that in comparison to Hitler, Stalin, Milosevic, and a few other notable individuals, you are in the middle of the pack...

    So, FUCK YOU :)

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    1. Hmmm, so you are actually a group. I knew it.
      I approved this comment so other readers see what kind of comments I receive. In dozens.
      This is another very necessary 'dissenting' comment. Thank you.

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    2. Well, I rather doubt this poster genuinely compared you to the individuals they name. Of course, it seems from other posts in this blog that there are many, many posts that you do not allow to appear, so in being selective in what you do allow does not exactly allow your readers to put them all in context, does it?

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    3. 'There might be a strong disagreement with some of the commenters but that's life'

      I guess this comment cuts both ways... :)

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    4. This blog had completely open comments for months till a group of guys decided they will destroy this blog by spamming it with hate, obscenity, wishing me the worst etc. I pity those guys, they cannot find better hobby or open their own blog. No I do not filter comments based on different opinion.

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    5. The last sentence above is hilarious. Great joke. LOL.

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    6. It is not a joke Evan, that's true. If you present decently your opinion I will publish it. Wendy

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  27. We're a secret society Wendy. Kind of like the Masons, if you will. So, you better be very careful who you piss off with your blog, else someone takes really serious offense to it and decides to right that wrong. You could of course throw caution to the wind and keep it up. I can say that at least three individuals I know are really, really, really fucking mad at you, to be sure...

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    1. I try to be nice to you, but you are very, very naughty boys.

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    2. 'I try to be nice to you, but you are very, very naughty boys.'

      Boys?? Really. Well, most of us are ex-military servicemen. What some of us have done would send you running for your mother, believe me...
      :)

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    3. If you are ex-millitary men than it is even more troubling what you are doing. It does not provide you with a right what you do towards me. Does your training involve anonymous online bullying of women? I tried to to be empathetic but you are crossing the line. If you have any wounds from your combat experience bullying me wont heal them.

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  28. Some would agree that while the historical comparisons miss the mark, the closing comment doesn't...

    :)

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  29. Well Wendy, whether you admit it or not, the tone of many of your posts, and your apparent joy and humor you find in men being injured in certain ways can be expected to garner some negative responses. If you actually expected other, perhaps you are a little naïve, to put it mildly...

    What do you actually expect to hear from male posters based on the subject matter - overwhelming support and enthusiasm?

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    1. That's fine. But a negative response is different than an abusive/offensive.
      That's the problem.

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    2. Hello Wendy,
      I've been following your blog for a while now, and think that you should just completely ignore all comments from men. Women should have an unrestricted right to take whatever action they in their good judgement decide is needed at the time to protect themselves, no matter what happens to the male attacker. I am sure that you and all other women agree with this. If men don't want to get castrated, they should just stay away from us.

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    3. I kind of disagree with your comment about ignoring all comments from men, although there are many negative comments from men, I think there are a few brave men that are not ashamed of the vulnerability of their testicles, these men are very respectful and helpful, they can provide a lot of unknown informations about testicles and testicles attacks that studies and surveys still did not cover, for example: the physical aspect of being hit in the testicles, the kind and the amount of pain men feel when getting hit in the testicles. Second, the physiological aspect of having such a sensitive organ dangling between the legs and how men feel physiologically after being hit in the testicles, is there a difference between being hit by a man or a woman, the transmitted pain and the mystery behind it, and many many subjects that need men point of view.

      Wendy, thank you so much for this blog, i hope you find my comment is helpful and i wish that you could cover some of the subjects that i mentioned. By the way i have many more subject as well.
      Sarah

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    4. Dear Sarah, Thank you so much for your comment. I absolutely agree with you. There are many men which are supportive and you can find several commenting on this blog as well. Also, I do not hate those disagreeing with me or criticizing me. I try to be empathetic towards them and to understand their feelings. Not having testicles means I can only rely on men to provide some of those important insights you mentioned. I will definitelly cover many of the myth, mysteries, physiological and psychosocial aspects in my future posts. Sarah if you have any ideas what should I cover or if you have something to share, you are the most welcome. Have a nice day, Wendy

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    5. You are absolutely right! even though it is annoying to see those negative comments but it is important to have empathy toward them in order to understand them better and understand why they act this way, is it because this subject is so embarrassing for them? are they acting like that to change the subject because they don't want women to expose their vulnerability? is there a way to make them feel ok and accept their vulnerability? All these questions could be subjects to cover more in details in order to have all around knowledge about women self defense

      Sarah

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  30. Well, I believe that most definitely DO filter posts based on the veracity of the argument in the post. You also are vert selective on what part of the narrative you will actually respond to, conveniently protecting your views, and avoiding any discussion and responsibility for what you said.

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    1. There are more than 500 comments on this blog. Many, if not most of them do not agree with the content of this blog. Does that mean I promote censorship and avoiding discussion? For you the only valid discussion is if I summited to your views. You do not change your stand easily, neither do I. Sorry

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    2. Just saw this. Don't matter how many comments you allow, it matters how many you don't.

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    3. I'd like to have a nice discussion on this blog also with those who disagree with me. But most of your comments have no content just vulgarity and hatred. Try to be more nicer and I can approve those and explain my stand. Learn from other men on this forum. Wendy

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    4. I checked that other blog where comments are submitted here but not posted. There are MANY, MANY, comments there that no reasonable person would call vulgar. It’s clear that you don’t allow rational comments that legitimately criticize your provocative and often hate filled posts.

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    5. How are you Evan? I hope you are doing well. I had to switch off the anonymous comments as you went overboard and to allow you to have a break. I approve any comments that (i) are not repetitive (ii) are not offensive, vulgar, or personally attacking me, and other commenters (iii) do have any content in them. Constructive critique is welcome. Most of your comments do not qualify Evan sorry, try more. Wendy

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  31. For you the only valid opinion is your own. With very few exceptions, when acknowledging someone else's (a male's) criticism of what you say, you immediately justify your position by referring to other wrongdoings, your own imperfection, some other irrelevant comment or simply shrug it off.

    You are heavily invested in your own opinions-that isn't going to change, and none of the male posters here would ever expect it to either.

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  32. wow such a nice blog!!! Thank you Wendy!!!

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    1. Thank you, I am glad you like it. Have a nice day. Wendy

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  33. I don't like it at all, I was being sarcastic, just like you always are.

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  34. ^^
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bc7GKnpTazQ

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    1. Thanks for the video, he should have been more careful not spread his legs :) Regards, Wendy.

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  35. What techniques are still equally effective on a man wearing a jockstrap? Is he immune to a lot of the attacks if he wears something tight?

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    1. Hi, thank you for the question. Basically, all techniques involving hits and direct impact are highly effective including kicks, knees, and punches. The truth is the jockstrap makes the package tight making grabbing more difficult (but not impossible). The hit should always go upwards to compress the tightly packed testicles against the pubic bone or outwards to jerk the package from his body (this works best e.g. during scoop kicking). This is very painful. So jockstrap is good for preventing injuries in sports but does not protect a man from self defense techniques. Regards, Wendy

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    2. Will scoop kicking be hard to hit if the testicles are squeezed against the body by a jockstrap? I thought it would be hard on a clothed man without dangling balls. Do kicks and other strikes to the jockstrap-held package work as painfully as to a loosely dangling package? Maybe it's just all the same since any good hit there is painful, but I'm worried that a kick to the wrapped up package would hurt less because they're harder to hit and lack the wild swinging and smacking around that would normally happen if you kick a guy there

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    3. Hi, sure the effectiveness of a scoop kick would be lower than in the case of loose low hanging, and ideally naked testicles. If the package is tight and this can happen for instance in cold or when he is aroused this gathers the testes together and it is much easier to compress them (they do not slip away) against the body with a kick or a knee. So the pain comes from compression and strong pressure, not from the blunt sudden impact and yanking force itself. Hope this makes sense. Regards, Wendy

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    4. I see. Since the jockstrap holds the testicles in tight, does that mean that a man would be more damaged by a kick or knee if he was wearing a jockstrap than if he was naked, since his balls would be easier to compress? Or does it still help support them against a blow? I will stick to scoop kicks on guys that have low-hanging plums, but it's good to hear that a more skilled person could take advantage of that technique in more cases

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  36. To an anonymous who wrote: Because of you, girls in South America are starting to train on real models, like it's a new kind of sport. And in the process, the video is also found on adult websites... Thanks, I cannot post adult videos on this blog. Regards, Wendy

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  37. https://femsupstories.wordpress.com/2024/09/04/misandry-101/

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    1. Thanks for the link, interesting writing :) Regards, Wendy

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