During this time one of the truly revolutionary self defense book written by Susan E. Smith ‘Fear or Freedom’ came out in 1986. As a feminist she emphasized that women should not rely on men when it comes to their safety but to take matters into their own hands, sometimes quite literally. She interviewed survivors of sexual attacks and their experience materialized in her own system. Absolutely superb is the chapter about the techniques of the last resort self defense, in which she stresses that initial compliance followed by sudden execution of one of the three drastic incapacitating techniques can be a ticket to freedom. She provides an unprecedented information on testicles as a target. With absolutely no reservation she explains in detail and through some realistic illustrations how woman under a sexual assault should perform a move she called ‘the testicle twist’ on exposed testicles of an assailant, giving a highly empowering lesson to any female reader: ‘What power women can have knowing that there is one technical but simple, no-fail defense for rape’. Truly an excellent book, the type we really miss nowadays.
You can borrow this book via archive.com or buy it on Amazon.I will dive in some of the information in her book in my later posts.
Back in the eighties a female friend appeared on a TV series called Stand Your Ground presented by the author of a book by the same name ( Kaleghl Quinn (ISBN: 9780856135248) from Amazon's Book Store.) A full episode was devoted to the testicles and afterwards the women all agreed that it was by far the most useful and realistic part of the course. Fancy moves are fine but, at the end of the day, nothing is as effective as a good kick in the balls!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for this outstanding comment. I was not aware of this book and today I borrowed it on archive.com. I really like the symbols for the grip and twist - a boa constrictor and a small bottle lid being screwed tightly! No wonder it is from the 80ties. I would love to see that TV episode. Hopefully, they’ll put it on internet some day.
DeleteI just want to say, we women are not clueless about this topic, we get the idea how sensitive testicles are early in life, even without any self defense training. We see movies, we see small everyday accidents. That’s why they rightfully considered that episode the most useful and realistic.
Was it on the course run by Linda that you first hit a man in the balls? How did it make you feel?
ReplyDeleteYes, the first serious hit happened there.
DeleteI wrote about my experience in this comment:
https://lastresortselfdefense.blogspot.com/2020/10/testicle-props.html?showComment=1602692483123#c7548005362443703465
hi where i can find this book at cheap cost please?
ReplyDeleteHi, you can buy it via Amazon, you can search for it with ISBN 978-0941300032
Deleteor you can electronically borrow it (its free after registration). https://archive.org/details/fearorfreedomwom00smit/ Hope this helps, Wendy
thanks sister, i recommend you to check this too:
DeleteRational-Womans-Guide-Self-Defense
https://www.amazon.com/Rational-Womans-Guide-Self-Defense/dp/0448119439
Thank you for the tip these old books a very good source of information. Much better than the new ones. Wendy
DeleteThe Ladies Club 1986
ReplyDeletehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z4QTezObe9E&t=2418s
Thank you for the clip. Interesting movie with a bold message. But I think knowing self defense is better than revenge. Wendy
DeleteLet's Talk About Testicles
ReplyDeletehttps://hubhopper.com/episode/022-lets-talk-about-testicles-1580112526
Thank you, I like how she emphasizes training the GTP with a willing male partner (with caution of course) in different positions, and the importance of visualization and motoric movement. Regards, Wendy
Deletehttps://poddtoppen.se/podcast/1477888118/born-to-be-a-badass/fierce-and-female-rape-defense
ReplyDeleteThank you for the link. Good to hear, openly talking such knowledgeable women about such a sensitive topic. Some very good techniques. Regards, Wendy
Deletehttps://edition.cnn.com/2010/WORLD/africa/06/20/south.africa.female.condom/index.html
ReplyDeleteHi, thanks for the link. It seems to be a very good device. Although I prefer self defense skills. Regards, Wendy
DeleteI wonder how she tested the product during its development. At some stage some brave soul risked his manhood to prove its efficiency and safety. Rather him than me!
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OH3KjdqMr4M
ReplyDeleteThis is Feminist Self-Defense
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Associate Professor of History Wendy Rouse on the Origins of the Women's Self-Defense Movement
ReplyDeletehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a3FR48UjpxM